Hey, I picked up the Game by Neil Strauss my senior year of high school and thought it was a good read. My girlfriend broke up with me at the end of my freshman year of college and I have a lot of sticking point at getting back in the game of single life so I started to use PUA techniques on and off without any commitment. I don't have much success with women and it is my junior year of college and im going to start to change things around. Quite frankly I am a jaded asshole but I want to be more socially affluent and therefore less jaded and less of an asshole. I tend to have one-itis with any woman who shows interest in me and this is my first sticking point I want to not just eliminate but utterly destroy. Any tips for doing this? (btw the way the whole tipping point for me making this commitment is being pissed off at one of my one-itis's who gave me the ljbf talk and made out with a guy and another girl right in front of me while I was drunk so take that for what its worth) I will try to stay committed to this game but I have a problem with committing to anything (but ironically I still have oneitis) Anyway I am rambling. Any help?

One-itis is solved with letting the time goes by and keeping your mind occupied in other activities. Also, get your body involved in other stuff like having sex with other women! lol.

Everybody goes through the one-itis deal at some point or another, so don't worry too much about it. Use it as fuel to get yourself going. Use it as your point of determination and commitment. Your rage can push you into becoming a good PUA.

I'd suggest to eliminate all contact sources with your one-itis too. No Facebook, phone, text, email, NOTHING. Anything that reminds you of her in an active way is negative to your process. Having a way of communicating with her can only be a distraction, and you may fall for it, so avoid it.

Practice and learn inner game, and reduce the "assholeness" you say you have.

These free resources might help you: http://www.bosproject.com/index.php?tid=zacthebyrd

and this free eBook: http://www.bosproject.com/joinfree.php?tid=zacthebyrd

Take care, enjoy the process, and be determined to become good with women.

Good luck

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I think its not so much of oneitis as its a habit of oneitis. I have a problem of latching on which I know is rooted in my inner game. My problem is the sex I want i'm not getting and the sex im getting I don't want. I am not the type of be indescriminate with the women I sleep with because I appreciate the beauty of hb9s and 10s. The rest of them seem to barely interest me but after a while I will get desperate and fuck something sub-9 because I just cant...get...the....hot...ones. Whats the best thing I can do for my inner game? I know once I get myinner game worked out everything else will fall into place.

The best way to improve your inner game is by developing your skills set. Inner game is about confidence, and you have develop confidence in your abilities in order to be able to trust in yourself (in terms of PUA of course).

Here's an example. Let's say you suck at approaching women because of your approach anxiety. Then, you start practicing your approach. You take a whole week practicing how to say HI to people. By the end of that week, you should be a master at saying "hi" to people. You'll trust your abilities and your confidence in saying "hi" to people will be high. You just improved your inner game a tiny bit.

Now, the second week, you go and practice how to say Hi and ask a question. Just the same way you did it the first week, at the end of the second week your confidence in saying "hi" and asking a random question will be high. You know you can do it, cause you've done it many times.

Little by little you'll work your way through your approach anxiety and your confidence in the approach will grow.

I know this is a random example, but that's how you improve your inner game: by Exposure, practice, time, and dedication.

Confidence = ability to know you can do things.

If you sleep with 1000 HB10s, would you be confident that you can in fact sleep with HB10s? Of course you would. You have done it many times, so you know you can do it. Anytime you approach a HB10 you'd know that it's possible that you could sleep with her. Your game would reflect it, and therefore, your inner game would be good.

All of that is explained in my website, and I also showed step-by-step practice methods on how to improve your inner game. Read away, and ask anything you don't understand.

Good luck

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