Hi guys, one question about identity. In my case I'm now unemployed. I have a college degree but I still haven't found a job. If I go to a set and play my cards right, I know that the "what do you do" question is going to come up at some point. And I know that if I say the truth it is going to lower my value. So my question is: Do I fake it till I make it, and lie telling that I work now, for example, in what I want to be working in the future, or should I just say the truth?

BTW, I'm new to the forum and to the pick-up community. So hi to all, and I hope to in a near future be able to share success stories with you all.

Tell her that you finish your degree and now you searching for the job but nothing worthwhile have come, in the meantime since you have time you are doing (voluntaries at pet shop, dance art, karate, I don’t know, cpr school, helping on the big brother program, taking some other course. learning a new language … I don’t know), you just have to tell her that you are busy, and pass the message you are not sitting at home playing with your balls all day , and doing nothing.