Thanks. I try to throw myself often in new situations and at the beginning I'm always a bit uncomfortable, but that's just normal and I accept that. I like meeting new people and doing this I call it a challenge.
I do salsa not only for the girls but also because I genuinely like it. I like dancing and I like the music a lot. I believe that if you dance good that you get in a sort of flow or trance and that's the fun part of dancing, when it all goes natural.
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Yes i took salsa, but as i said many times, salsa, merengue, ballrooom swing and country among others will put you into "courtship zone"
After having two classes of salsa, I totaly get your point. But I don't see the courtship zone as something bad. You probably don't want to fuck all women your dancing with so this courtship vibe makes it fun (even) if you're not sexualy interested in the girl.
Secondly, the courtship vibe can be put to good use I think. You don't want to be sexual all time with a woman while dancing. The courtship vibe allows you to flirt by making the flirting acceptable, because it's also a fun vibe. Making eye contact while dancing can give salsa dancing a more sexualy vibe, which is good, but which shouldn't be overdone in some cases (like if you just started classes). Flirting in the courtship vibe compensates it.
Besides of that, if you're a good dancer, that will DHV enough to make the girl interested.
The courtship zone is something which I think is easy to come out of. During salsa lessons, you should cherish the courtship zone in order to keep it fun. After the classes ended, you can easily exit the courtship zone because the situation changed. Then you can chat a bit and say her something like "hey I'm going to this salsa bar tomorrow night with some friends and you should definatly join us" or whatever.
