I'm going to go ahead and say your the f*cking MAN pumpington...no ego boost, no brownie points, none of that...you are straight up being a MAN.

I love it.

thanks man, I have allready tried S&A and I think I did it wrong, I was actually told recently it was compliments stacked together with take-aways, I was being sexual and got rejected when I field tested.
Thanks

Day 5,
Ok, here we go, fifth day so today I got off work, headed home, got some sleep. After a nice sleep, I headed to the mall. I got lunch and a haircut, talked to some people I knew there, headed into the walmart attached, the place was dead, no hotties anywhere, today I had more energy but I wasn't feeling any sort of AA, I walked through Walmart with a guy I knew from the mall saw a HB7, walked past her, figured, meh that is probably the best I will find in this walmart. I turned around headed back to the isle she was in. I looked at her, 0/10 nervous scale, extremely solid, no fear, and calm, I said, Hi, she smiled and said hello, I just saw you as I was passing and I thought you were really cute, I Just had to at least come meet you. She froze up, it was like a deer in the headlights, her shoulders went stiff, huge smile, little mini weird giggle, she couldn't talk, she didn't say anything, just stood there frozen up, I just held eye contact and started to smile, I knew this one was going to be easy, So I said, well, I like movies, do you like movies?, she said, yes, I like movies, she began to loosen a bit from the OMG IM GONNA SHIT MY PANTS look, then I said, I also really like girls who are into sports, are you into sports, like snowboarding?, she said, Yes, I love sports, but I've only been snowboarding one time, but I liked it, I would definitely go again, I then said, well, I would love to grab a coffee with you, Would you like that?, She said, sure, I'll get a coffee with you, Then I said, well I have to go right now, but Let me get your number and Ill text you, She then told me she didn't have a phone (LOL poor walmart girl), so I said, ahh no, that's too bad, well I really have to go, It was really great meeting you, I hope I see you again some day, she smiled and was bright red, and didn't say anything

anyways i'm pretty sure I made that girl's day and after I did my approach the guy I was with did an indirect approach, and it was fucking awesome!!, he walked up to this overweight asian chick, and opened with, HEY! DO YOU KNOW WHERE THERE IS COTTON CANDY?, she was like NO?..., then I think he said (I was in the next isle over trying to throw him into approach) I like cotton candy, do you?, she said NO then laughed and basically ran away, IT WAS FUCKING AWESOME!! he told me it was his first daytime approach, dude had mad courage, I have nothing but respect for that

anyways, I got my new fuck'n haircut and now Im gonna be grindin.... on every piece ah pussy that walks through tha door, FUCKIN YAGGA BOMBS

FUCK YEAH CHALLENGE COMPLETE FOR TODAY!!!!

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^mood for today

Got lazy about direct opening the other two days, so I am on day two. Tried the apocalypse opener today. Cute girl on my way back home from bowling, just went up said

Me:"Hey hows it going?"
Her:"Good"
Me:"What's your plans for later?"
Her:"I am waiting for a friend"
Me:"Cool... Want to come back to my place?"
Her:"No"

It didn't work but gave the girl a big smile. I am pretty sure I got to practice it some more to get it down, but I want to learn how to do it correctly. I realize I didn't give the finishing line it's proper place, should have said "You should come back to my place afterwards" or something that was congruent with the conversation without really asking her. I am sure there is more to the calibration than that. Has anyone gotten that to work and have any pointers?

I'm a classic rock fan so heres my pump up song
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VgSMxY6asoE[/youtube]

I think you should have given her a non-slutty reason to come back to ur place..
Like "Hey, I just renovated my new living room. Wanna check it out?"

You don't understand how this works so don't comment about it. The point of that opener is to be sexual and open about it. You are wasting no time and creating instant attraction because you are showing you have the balls to do this. What you are saying is being the definition of being a pussy and completely defeats the purpose of the opener. Totally uncongruent with how this opener works. Forget the skirting around the bush with stupid lines, excuses for getting her back to your place and ASD. These will only limit your ability with this opener.

Hey man, relax.. i'm just trying to participate lolll.

I will start day one next week, and this should be fun

Ok, thats fine. Have fun, didn't mean to be a jerk. Just explaining to you why that wasn't a good idea. By advice I was thinking more like body language, who to approach with this, inner beliefs, sexual state ect. I don't want to change the wording of this, I think that it is brilliant the way it is. The only reason I didn't word it right was by accident. Most likely the reason I did not succeed. For those that don't know what the apocalypse opener is here is a link so you can be better informed.

http://www.bristollair.com/2008/outer-g ... se-opener/

i was just reading this thread and its a good one. I would like to share a few things that might help make this challenge a bit better.
First of all we are not here just to be men. We are here to get results and if we dont get results then whats the use of being men? Agreed?
It could be good for motivation and inner game but inner game without outer techniques is not good. Yeah?
Personally my inner game was completed when i learnt to assume attraction.
A few outer game techniques
after you open (if you are a newbie) times seems to run faster, you feel like you are taking too much of their time and that turns into you asking a lot of questions and not using their answers to make the converstaion fun. Results? No success
first of all you need to overcome the urge to do things faster. You should come across as a man who is sure of whe he is doing. Relax, take your time! RELAX
Secondly, prepare your opener only and do not prepare what you are going to say after the opener. You aim should be to use their responses and make fun conversation out of that.
After the opener, do not ask another question, do not start telling about yourself (girls may think wtf? Why is he telling me all this? They may ask you directly,"why are you telling me?" or "sorry, i am not interested")
so transition onto them. Right after the opener, your goal should be to talk about them, may be you tease them about what they said, may be you throw a statement about what they said, may be you throw a statement followed by a question if you want to know more about what they said. After a minute or two in, you can talk about yourself giving a brief idea of what kind of person you are.
They your aim should be to pick a reason out of they conversation to get their number. Number close should occur naturally. You should be sure that you are going to get the number and behave accordingly
And if you cant find any reason then enject saying,"it was nice meeting you. I gotto go(it would a bit unexpected for the girl and causes a bit of sense of loss)" and then
TURN BACK
"You seem kinda interesting. We should talk again" if she seems to hesititae to reply, take a step back and as she says,"sure" take out your cell and say her to type in the number.

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another thought that just flashed through my mind and that might help guys is that initially you want to keep their attention for you so initially you either want to be talking or holding eyes contact all the time. And also use your hand gestures

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Hey tippicano, I read if you do the appocolypse oppener, and she says no, just say ok, and talk to her like normal, be non sexual and not needy, and attraction and tension will just build because of the opener, now i'm no expert on the subject, due to the fact I have seen the opener done, but have yet to field test it myself, but you would probably be cool, with just having a conversation then going for her number, maybe stick around a bit later and if you want to push your luck try for an insta date, lol.

GOOD LUCK MAN, also GOOD WORK ON YOUR DAY 1, MAD SKILLZ!! MAD COURAGE! but don't forget to follow the challenge rules, you have to ask for the phone number no matter what, and by the sounds of your awesome post, you would have got one, FUCK YEAH!!

DAY 1:

Decided to just go outside and do a direct approach right after I read this thread. So i dressed up, put on my jacket and headed out. Decided to walk around bars and clubs, since I had no interest on spending money LOL. So I walk 2-3 blocks down the street and meet this HB6 walking down the street; I am about to stop her, but for some reason, my mind creates a reason to not approach her (reason: she was walking too fast lolll). So I pass her, and move on to the next block, where I find 2 HB7's walking towards me. Once again my mind creates an excuse to not speak to them (excuse: there were 2 men right beside me). I keep walking down the street, making a decision of speaking to the next HB that I meet. I then saw this HB7 who looked young from far, and was smoking some pot. I then pretend like I was talking on the phone while approaching her, and then once I meet face to face with her, I realize she's in her early 40's. Note that I am still just 19, so I still get a bit intimidated when approaching significantly older women. The nervousness kicks in, because I can tell she's thinking in her mind "wtf is a youngster doing trying to pick me up". The conversation went as follow:

Me: Hey there
Her: Oh hey (with a curious look on her face. She was half high)
Me: I was walking down the street and notice you, and had to come over to talk to you
Her: Ok..
Me: So what's your name
Her: Katia
Me: I'm John, nice to meet you
Her: confused (maybe she was just too high LOL).
Me: (idk what I said here... I think I fumbled between the lines and said something tht didnt make sense lol.
Me: Alright was nice talking to ya
Her: Alright (still confused and still high).

Mistakes I realized that I did:

- Should have looked directly into her eyes the entire time
- Should have been more daring, for example: Omg you look amazing.. I cant help but think about have sex with you
- Of course I shouldn't have pussied out infront of a middle aged woman ~,~

On my way back, I came across 7 different sets of HB6+'s, but none of them even cared to stop to have a chat x_x. They were either in a hurry, or too drunk to talk lol.

Anyways, I really think this challenge thing puts more pressure on me than usual.. Usually it's so damn easy for me to open a set, and walk way with numbers.. but the fact that there are rules this time and I will be interacting with girls from any age, makes it that much harder

DAY 1 (8 sets approached), all failed. Hoping for a better luck next time.. but really I have a feeling that night game is not for me lol.

third time ive tried posting this. i give up. 2/3 #closes tonight, used a new method i havent tried before too. more details tomorrow when i decide i want to make this thing work again.

HERE IS THE CHALLENGE IF YOU SO CHOOSE TO ACCEPT IT
for the next 7 days, you must do at the VERY LEAST 1 cold approach during the day,

there are only two rules to challenge,

RULE 1) DECLARE INTEREST!!! (you must tell her she is hot/cute/adoreable w.e. you actually think of her)

RULE 2) EVEN IF SHE IS COLDEST BITCH FROM HELL, YOU MUST ASK FOR HER PHONE NUMBER, AND TELL HER YOU WANT TO HANG OUT WITH HER
these are the rules gentlemen

KEEP YO BODIES PUMPIN, and there is a 7 day minimal requirement,
POST RESULTS IN THE THREAD
then reflect for improvement!!

Day 6,
Ok guys, So today I got off work, headed home, got some sleep. I woke up and didn't feel like going to the mall or going out. I called my buddy, told him I was coming over to hang out. I hit up little cesar's to grab two five dollar pizza's. When I was leaving the store, I saw a cute girl, hb7.5 I didn't want to go far out of my way today to try hard so I just sort of cat called her with HEY!, she looked didn't say anything, so I got closer and said it again, HEY!, she smiled and said, HEY!, at this point I was close enough to talk. I just said, You're cute, can I have your number I got to go. She said no Then I said you're sure?, she said, yeah im sure, and walked away

LOL CHALLENGE COMPLETE FUCK YEAH!!

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^mood of today