Yea typically put a positive spin on things when talking about your day or you'll seem mundane and boring. It'd be a mistake to tell her that "it would have been better with you" - sounds needy and lame...you can do this once you're steady with a girl but even still I'd use it very sparingly.

Yah..... I think she's sensing I'm getting obsessed. So to continue the text messages.

To her Oct 12 05:06pm: You think you're cute? hmmmm... I don't know.. Whats so cute about you? How about you show me?

(I waited a day!)
To her Oct 13 07:28pm: Working tonight?
To me Oct 13 10:43pm: Yes u playin
To her Oct 13 10:44pm: You gonna pay me?
To me Oct 13 10:45pm: Sure!
To her Oct 13 10:47pm: When will you deal at my bj table?
To me Oct 13 10:47pm: Don't know haven't checked
To her Oct 13 10:48pm: Go check!
To her Oct 13 10:51pm: How often are your breaks?
To me Oct 13 10:52pm: Every two hours
To her Oct 14 12:10am: Hey keep track of how long it takes to get back around. Ill be there soon. Im having dinner with a friend.

And then at about 2am. I went in to play some blackjack. It was a weird rotation and she never got to blackjack. I played for about 3 hours until they closed. Ended the night with even money. Me and my friend decide to go get breakfast. And I text her again.

To her 04:48am: How long does it take you to check out?
To her 04:49am: Come eat breakfast. We're at dennys. You know youre hungry.
To me 05:01am: Oops I'm in __city__ already meeting a gf. Next time!

And that's where it ends. I'm a little disappointed. She's at the top of my list that I'm hoping to get together with. Even though, she smokes. I think it's because I imagine the relationship to be fun and not so serious. But yah, I'm not sure where to go from here. I was thinking about sending a message on Saturday saying "You busy? Let's get coffee so you can show me how you have fun" Although, I'm not convinced that's the best message to send right now. Any suggestions?

Also when I was there at the casino still with her I should've asked her in person instead of being a wimp and texting it to her.

are you being serious man... your imagining the relationship? you think itll be less serious than your making it currently? that itll be fun even know you have no idea what she does in her spare time? or what kind of person she is?

if she didnt respond to "you think your cute? hmm i dont know whats so cute about you? how about you show me?" you think shell respond to "lets get coffee so you can show me how you have fun". your putting way to much pressure on her...

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Okay, so what can I send? In the meantime, I'm gonna go on my coffee date with a different girl. Maybe it'll keep her off my mind.


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you could take the pressure off by not asking her direct yes or no questions, either by giving her choices, being vague, making statements or being random.

whats the best kind of chocolate? dark or light - choices
need a movie thats female friendly - vague
i heard slot machines are replacing staff in casinos - statement
just got attacked by flying monkeys - random

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I like these stealthhawk. The way you differentiate among them is awesome! Text game is not my strongest suit and women love to text these days-which can be so annoying but thats part of the game isn't it?

-Jordan

@stealthhawk hmm... okay. What exactly does taking the pressure off do?

imagine some girl you met at university that seems cute got your number but you dont know her that well. then after a couple of texts she started doing what you did?

you: "im the only jcrane5 in the lecture"
her: "you think your hot? hmm i dont know whats so hot about you? how about you show me? ".

you dont respond to that. then a day later she starts texting you again.

her: "coming today?"
you: "yea you?"
her: "you gona bring me food?"
you: "sure!"
her: "you gona come sit with me?"
you: "friend might be in"
her: "go check!"

you skipped lecture and she texts you afterwards.

her: "how long it take you check!"
her: "come the cafe i know your hungry"
you: "im already with a friend sorry next time"

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I'm not sure I follow but are you saying I need to build rapport?

Not report. He's just saying that you should give the girl some slack.. You sound too NEEDY and girls dont want guys who are needy.. Its very unattractive..

Just talk some random bs for a while and mix it up. Be serious, be funny, bust her balls a bit.. If you act properly you'll get some more IOS's.. Then you think about meeting up and asking/suggesting to go out.

Doede.