| Hi guys,
I need some help.
Normally I am quite confident with girls, but I met this stunning girl at uni and for some reason it isn’t as straight forward as I thought it was.
We are at university and she is a fresher and I am a frep and we met and chatted. Spend a day hanging around having coffee and in the evening after a social took her back home, and eventually kissed a bit. Then she said she didn’t want to be in a relationship, bad experience with an ex, etc. which I guess its fair enough as we had only met each other for a few days.
I thought it would be awkward but it was okay, I went to her place with some friends and watched a movie, and then the next day we went clubbing (fresher’s week) and it was fine, slightly awkward I think, but then we danced closely and made out for a while, and then we went home.
Next day, I think, super awkward, saw her in another club, we had some conversation and ended up making out for ages, and then left.
Then next feel days it seemed pretty cool, she reiterated her situation about wanting to be friends and liking me apparently but not wanting anything more.
Now I know this has AFC written all over it, I seemed to have gone from PUA in the beginning and falling apart, probably because I am becoming a little bit smitten, (oneitis? Ahhh)
Shes great personality, slightly intimidating and I don’t even know why.
We have overlapping societies and we still hang out and she did invite me a few times to watch a movie in her bedroom (with her friends though)
I don’t know whether she slipped a drug in me but I am falling like leaf in autumn, and the sad thing is that I don’t want it to stop.
Any advice would be appreciated.
Scypther
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CHAT