Hey guys, so it's octoberfest weekend. For those who are not familiar with this, it's basically a week of heavy drinking and stupid hats.

Anyways, so I have seeing a girl for about 2 weeks, built up a great connection and have been on several hang outs. So yesterday I met her in the afternoon, hung out and then took her home and got her naked, was about to have sex and realized 1. I don't have a condom and 2. It was 6:30 and I had plans for 7:30. So I basically told her we don't have time. This would be the first time with eachother. Afterwords I sent some texts to make her feel that I didn't blow her off or whatever. Just some damage control cause I thought she might have been insaulted I didn't want to make sex.

After this I went out to an octoberfest event and began to drink....alot. Around 12 I was completely shit faced and remember nothing. Buddies say I was just a halarious idiot. So I woke up this morning and look at my phone...... See I placed like 8 calls to this girl at 2am and but only one that is 5min. So I'm sure I talked to her. Then I look at my texts and there is random texts saying shit to her like "I love you" "I'm wasted and black" "I want to tickle your belly button...from the inside;)"

Hahaha really random ass shit that she didn't seem to like. I have black berry messenger so I see when a person reads my messages. So completely embarrassed, I message her in the afternoon saying I got out of control and apologized for being a crazy bastard. She reads my messages but no response, call her a few hours later and no answer. Just straight up ignoring me.

I also called every single girl in my phone book. Some liked it, some think I'm on crack. I figure I will just call the main girl in a few days and see what happens. Do you guys think I can recover? Or did this I love you creep shit kill all attraction? She doesn't really know me and I'm sure doesnt think I was joking(which I was). I kinda think this girl is a bitch for ignoring me!! Clearly I was just wasted and never displayed any needy behaviour before. What do you think I can do to fix it? A message I can send? Anything.




Don't drink and use cellular phones!!

I almost pee'd myself reading this. Nice texts. Not sure you can recover but hell it was funny as fuck. Good luck.

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You did screw up with the text but that is something very little and that is not the reason she did not pick up. The fact you did not have sex with her also not a big issue.
The main problem of yours is you calling her multiple times. I personally will never allow myself call same girl more then once, if she did not pick up nor call me back. I will only send a text a day or 2 late saying something like "is everything alright ?". That text will show her and i am not desperate but just worried to the point.

Now, your only chance to turn things around is just simple not calling her, trust me give it a month or 2 and she will text you herself. If you see her, always smile and wave your hand as if you saying hi, nothing more then that. If it happens that you end up in a same spot when you have to say something just make sure to stay cool.

P.S. Never ever call a girl more then once.

Thanks for the responses guys. I was way too drunk to actually know what I was doing that night! I am actually very surprised my "autopilot" while I was blacked out would do such things haha. I will just wait for her to contact me, she was pretty into me so I'm sure I will hear from her.

Never feel sorry for what you did while you were drunk. Just ask yourself a question! Did I have fun, if yes then who cares ? If anyone try to remind you to make you feel embraced, just tell them you had fun and flu stop.

So update on this.

I destroyed all attraction with my drunken behaviour and earlier in that day I had asked her what her DEAL was with her ex-boyfriend. The guy broke up with her a month and a half ago and they were engaged. She was acting clingy with me after 3 dates and I wanted to see if she was "rebounding" since I don't deal with that. Anyways she took me asking as me showing interest in a relationship with her!! I guess I worded it wrong to her. I really was just curious if this bitch was gonna start showing up at my house to cuddle lol. So that "interest" I displayed and my drunken love giving made her think I'm some douche!

I then proceeded to text her this week trying to find out how bad I was saturday night (thinking it was only that), she ignored me for two days then told me about the above mentioned stuff about me wanting a relationship. I tried to recover by playing it off like she's crazy and I just wanna meet people and have fun. Long story short, my ego took a hit and I texted her some persistant/confident messages but made things worse.

This has been my first (miscommunicated) afc slip in a year of gaming. Kinda upset with myself. Worst thing she was naked on my bed, and I thought "fuck it, I'll hit it next time" and went octoberfesting I didn't really know how bad these AFC actions really were since I was at worst a shy natural. But fack, such a simple thing really messed it up bad.

I do not have the abundance mentality since I work full time, side business and all other hobbies make it hard to actually meet girls. MAYBE 1 or 2 potentials a month!! Damn small cities! I should move! I doubt there is anyway to recover from this since she ignors my ass. Maybe wait couple weeks and try to meet up for a "friendly" drink

Felt like venting this one out, guess it's me and some pornhub for a month Btw, pornhub.com people, it's where it's at!

Off topic but I often wait to reply to the messages a girl who has a blackberry sends me. I had no idea you could see when I read them. Hahah shit

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It's only for the 'Blackberry Messenger', or 'BBM' as people prefer to say. With normal text messages, you're unable to see when the person you're texting has read your message.

'SmoothOp', I don't mean to sound like an inconsiderate prick, but this story is pretty damn funny! Don't get me wrong, it is really harsh on you at the same time. I think a lot of people get in the situation when they get absolutely bladdered and end up texting some girl you've been seeing or what have you, thus, nine times out of ten, completely ruining it.

I think somebody else said that the main problem was ringing the girl numerous times. If you're constantly ringing her at two in the morning, completely rat-arsed just wanting to chat, they're going to think very little of you. Obviously, the good thing that is coming from this is that you know not to go out, get shit-faced and keep your phone in your pocket That's just leading to chaos.

Just get back out there in a couple of weeks, build some confidence back up, and then try getting back in with this girl.

(The only reason I say get your confidence levels back up would be because you've said slip up in a year of gaming, surely this would've knocked your confidence a tad. The longer you allow it to, the worse it'll be of course.)

Even so, best of luck with this woman, whether you get back in with her or not.

It's even funny to me!

The calling was retarded. Agreed.

Thanks for the response, I need get my crazy binge drinking "rat-arsed" nights under control