Ive recently gone to Uni (love it so far) and there is around a 2:1 girl/guy ratio here. I get plenty of opportunities to talk to girls. This is great because before I came from a pretty small county and everyone knew everyone.

However, everytime I talk to a girl, they always say these words: "I bet you talk to [insert ridiculously high number] girls"

95% of girls I met (both here and at home) have said this to me. So I have a few questions.

I am pretty flirty when I talk but i'm also very confidence (which most of the girls have told me also). I didn't think that indicated that I talk to a bunch of girls but I guess i'm wrong.

At this point in my life I am looking for a relationship and I feel like i'm giving off a vibe that i'm a manwhore (for lack of a better word). So I have a few questions:

1. Is this a good or bad thing?
2. How do I respond to this?
3. What can I do to not seem like I talk to alot of girls (if this is a bad thing)

Any insight or questions would be great

Thanks for all the help!

1. It's a massive IOI.
2. I tend to say "It doesn't matter how many girls I can have" or "What you're saying is a little exaggerated."
3. Don't overdo it, chatting to women is ok. Chatting up everybody is different shit OR it must be that they're the sexual aggressors. Or talk at changing sides of the room.

1) I would say that's a good thing, the girls is pretty much subconsciously thinking "Wow this guy must get lots of girls, why is he talking to me?"
2)If you wanted to do the cocky approach you could be like "Yes, i'm a talking whore" or another line that I have tried and heard from somewhere before "Yes, in matter of a fact, i'm an international pimp and I am currently recruiting, want to be my ho " (Careful how you play that one, need to be very sarcastic)
3)Don't do anything about it! Go with it, there is nothing wrong with talking to girls You could just say you wanted to meet some new people...there is nothing wrong with that

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I get this a lot too, and I'm not complaining! A lot of chicks I talk to think I'm a player or talk to a lot of girls, so I just play it off, it's an IOI and a big DHV! And the funny thing its not true, I'm not a player by any means...I do talk to a lot of girls but I'm very picky so I haven't been with a insane amount. So just play it off and take it as a compliment, its better than it being the other way round.

I agree....that line is a HUGE IOI!! Congrats!

I would counter with something like one of the following:

1) "That may or may not be true but judge my actions not my words" (then wink)
2) Laugh it off then say "Well, many are called and few are chosen."
3) "I had no choice! I grew up in a house full of girls!" or..if you dont want to lie...just say that you grew up around alot of girls.
4) "When you go to an all girls school..you learn how to talk to women"
5) "So what does that mean? (smile or it will come off like you are defensive)

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Atomicglow

What you said basically sums up myself. I don't really talk to many girls at all and they always make it seem like im a huge player. I'm pretty picky also and I just don't "talk" to girls just because I get the opportunity to get into a relationship.

Good advice everyone, thanks for all the helpful insight

That is quality. Got to learn to remember that one, thank you sir

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"I only talk to cute girls..." [start to walk away]

Well sure that's what you say if you want to come across as a dick. Personally I prefer "Well, many are called and few are chosen." like atomicglow suggested, it's worked out well for me in the cases I've used it.

Question 1: Good thing. Every time a girl associates you with being a "player" it's good. For some, it's even a shit test to see if you're going to crack under pressure. Simply don't acknowledge it, but dont deny it either. Play it cool, and keep the interaction going.

Question 2. Answered in question 1. Or you can also say "Yes, I talk to 1000 women a day, so anyway_____" and continue.

Question 3: Do not do anything. It's not a bad thing that you give out the flirty vibe. It shows confidence, and also that you know what you're doing. Capitalize on it. Trust me, some guys would die to be able to project that.

Hope it helps.

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