short texting exchange with a girl i havent talked to in about a month... the marriage stuff is all callback... in the end i shot out a low investment day 2 group invite... i want to know what you guys think and give me some advice on proceeding from here thanks and enjoy


ME [8:21]: I just met your twin, it was hilarious

HER [9:05]: Ahaha whos my twin?

ME [9:18]: This girl i had lunch with today. She totally reminded me of you. Do you have a cooler sister named maria?

HER [9:22]: Ahaha does she look like me? And no i dont. im the one and only hehehe

ME [9:42]: Identical but aside from looks, what else do you bring to the table?

HER [9:45]: Haha you need to show me a picture of her ahaha well.. of course my smartness and great sense of humour!!!

ME [9:59]: Lol respect, smartness--i like that. I think ill let you be my sugar mama

HER [10:02]:So were together again?? Hmm.. i'll have to see about that, i didnt like the wat u treated me

ME [10:13]: If it means anything, out of all my wives you were the craziest in bed...so lets take it slow

HER [10:19]: Ahaha well then.. thank you

ME [10:42]: Your welcome... Just dont hurt me..

HER [10:43]: Ahahahahaha I wont

ME [10:55]: p.s. me n (high value friend) are hittin up the new h&m thurs, you and your drugdealers should stop by

HER [10:57]: ahahahahhahahaa your hilarious 'you and your drugdealers' yeah for sure, we're probably going to be there for the opening! Who knows we might see you guys there (im unsure of what to make of this, i dont feel shes as invested as i hoped)

ME [11:05]: Kk sounds good kiddo.. Anyways, ima go out for a little jog-too much txting = arthritis! Speak soon x

HER [11:08]: Haha well have fun! ima go sleep. Good night xoxo

Yeah, I'd say it's solid. You employ disqualification ("cooler" sister, calling her "kiddo"), qualification ("besides your looks"), role-playing (wife), DHVs (hitting up the H&M), and just a general aura of cocky-funny. I like it... 3 emoticons is pushing it a bit though...

The way I'd interpret her "who knows we might see you there" is that she's intentionally playing coy but definitely open to the idea of you. She follows the statement with a smiley, and preceded it with a haha (x6) and "for sure" statement. And I actually like hearing the phrase "who knows;" I think it's a subconscious signal that she desires spontaneity, and feels you can provide that. I think at the very least, she's invested in it enough for you to have a legitimate shot at escalating if you game her properly in person. Follow up with how the meeting goes!

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It wasn't bad considering that you got her to validate herself. I wouldn't have push the Maria thing too much, but hey, the ends justifies the means lol.

Didn't love the group invite thing (even though it was funny) but you already know it was a bit weak.

Keep it up

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yea i remember one of the pua's saying something about doing group invites, and then with time turning that into a one on one... besides my friend was the one who suggested we go as a group, but i definately agree, the momentum sort of simmered down at the end, and i figured i might as well go for it