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PostPosted: Wed Oct 12, 2011 5:33 pm 
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I'm having trouble translating these skills with women into my everyday life.
In the club I can be super confident and pull like mad. But then I just can't be that same guy (be in that state) in my everyday life/at school/at work.
Like in the club I can escalate super easy because it is acceptable to do so in that environment. But in our daily lives its not really acceptable to go up to a girl you just barely know and ramp up the escalation (hugging,touching etc.)

In the day the game is totally different. I'm having trouble being that same confident rock solid guy in my everyday. Anyone have some advice or know any videos/posts I can watch and/or read. (maybe some RSD)

Cmon guys, help me out here. I want to be a natural in every aspect in my life. In every situation, at all times.
I want to have that same pull in the day then I do at night. How do I achieve this?

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Be less touchy but still keep the flirty vibe up. You can say sexual things by day. Yeah it's more 'accepted' to do it by night but it actualy makes no difference.

Keep this motto in mind: anyone, anywhere, anytime. Flirting doesn't have to lead to more. If I see a fat storeclerck in whom I have no interest whatsoever I'd possibly still make flirty remarks. Because I like to flirt and tease (and it helps you when it is for real since you're non-stop practicing).


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awesome post thanks!
just gonna bump this and see if theres anyone else that wants to add anything. Any videos or reading material on this topic?

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I'm having trouble translating these skills with women into my everyday life.
In the club I can be super confident and pull like mad. But then I just can't be that same guy (be in that state) in my everyday life/at school/at work.
Like in the club I can escalate super easy because it is acceptable to do so in that environment. But in our daily lives its not really acceptable to go up to a girl you just barely know and ramp up the escalation (hugging,touching etc.)

In the day the game is totally different. I'm having trouble being that same confident rock solid guy in my everyday. Anyone have some advice or know any videos/posts I can watch and/or read. (maybe some RSD)

Cmon guys, help me out here. I want to be a natural in every aspect in my life. In every situation, at all times.
I want to have that same pull in the day then I do at night. How do I achieve this?

I know what you mean i only pull in clubs but that is my target market, but i have no problem with confidence state etc... in everyday life, i like david d cocky funny for day and everyday situation, with that being said remember club game is harder than regular game due to bitch shield on steroids... Are you funny are all????? I think sense of humor is important, it works for me... cocky funny!

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I'm not going to contribute anything to this post, I just find extremely funny Noochie's profile picture hahaha.

That's nice man hahaha :lol:

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I'm having trouble translating these skills with women into my everyday life.
In the club I can be super confident and pull like mad. But then I just can't be that same guy (be in that state) in my everyday life/at school/at work.
Like in the club I can escalate super easy because it is acceptable to do so in that environment. But in our daily lives its not really acceptable to go up to a girl you just barely know and ramp up the escalation (hugging,touching etc.)

In the day the game is totally different. I'm having trouble being that same confident rock solid guy in my everyday. Anyone have some advice or know any videos/posts I can watch and/or read. (maybe some RSD)

Cmon guys, help me out here. I want to be a natural in every aspect in my life. In every situation, at all times.
I want to have that same pull in the day then I do at night. How do I achieve this?


Look into developing a solid night game without drinking. If you can open at night with the loud music and all the distractions, it should be simple opening during the day. The mistake most people make is that they go out hammered and their game is state dependent. So that being the case, you either learn how to do it without drinking, or just be drunk all the time. I'll PM you a little tutorial I wrote on establishing value everywhere you go without saying anything.


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I know what you mean i only pull in clubs but that is my target market, but i have no problem with confidence state etc... in everyday life, i like david d cocky funny for day and everyday situation, with that being said remember club game is harder than regular game due to bitch shield on steroids... Are you funny are all????? I think sense of humor is important, it works for me... cocky funny!
Yah im hilarious! but when I meet new people I find it kind of hard to show that side of myself easily. Its getting easier and easier tho slowly the more proactive I am the easier things become. Just gotta keep truckin. Sometimes I catch myself sensoring myself. Like I'll think of something hilarious but then I don't end up saying it. Just gotta let it flow.

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I'm not going to contribute anything to this post, I just find extremely funny Noochie's profile picture hahaha.

That's nice man hahaha :lol:
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Look into developing a solid night game without drinking. If you can open at night with the loud music and all the distractions, it should be simple opening during the day. The mistake most people make is that they go out hammered and their game is state dependent. So that being the case, you either learn how to do it without drinking, or just be drunk all the time. I'll PM you a little tutorial I wrote on establishing value everywhere you go without saying anything.
True! I used to get smashed at the club/bar but ever since I actually got serious about this stuff I cut my drinking ALOT!
Good stuff man, thanks for that link. Gonna read it now.

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