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I will grab a girl in party for dance, will give her a spin, will get her interested and attracted, the song is over and we go someplace to sit down.
At this point I need to flirt and switch the escalation from physical to more verbal otherwise the vibe will be gone. Had happened SO many times its painful to stick at the same point
WTF?
Dude, when you've reached physical stage all you need to do is stfu and build the psysical till you can kiss her. There's no need for chatting. Really none.
Almost every girl will start talking by themselves when the tension starts going up. All you need to do is continue building the psychical. Grab her by the middle, around the neck, etc. And simply kiss her.
Getting to the psychical is the hard part. Afterwards the game has been played. It's like you reverse things.
yeah... kind of reverse...
The reason it is a problem that very often I get physical where because of logistic or some other reason it can't progress.
ie:
there a people she knows around and she's thinking too much about her face;
she don't wanna be making out in the environment where she wants to come regularly;
I was thinking that the best solution in these cases would be to ask them out to meet up in different places where all those problems disappears.
In this case, does that mean I should just forget all the sexual escalation I did before and start from 0?
In the example where we can't hook up because of logistics, after 'dance' I am in a good place and not progressing feels wrong...