Why do girls sometimes just break away completely when you're grinding? When they previously were expressing interest?

...am I a terrible dancer?

A girl will grind with anyone. You were in the right place at the right time.......Unless you were at a house party and it was small and intimate ofcourse.

Where were you, clubbing? Whats the background story?

sorry for bumping this, but there was a school dance last night and i was wondering the same thing. I would grind with a girl and then after a song she would just move away and I didn't know if i was escalating too quickly maybe (touching in wrong spots) or i wasnt escalating enough?

As was said before, a girl will grind with anyone and it doesn't mean you're in. If you want it to go further, you've got to talk to them and interact. I see too many of my AFC friends walk up to a girl in the club and start grinding and then wonder why she doesnt turn around and hook up with them or whatever their idea of escalation is. If you havent even looked at the girl in the eye, do you think it would be healthy to start escalating with her?

Maybe, while your grinding spin her around and introduce yourself, tell her she's a good dancer or that she's hot. Usually she won't be the one to do this, and if you don't have the balls to do it, chances are she'll just walk off. Women arent like men, they want to be opened properly, not by having a guy rub his junk scent onto them.

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agree with you that grinding won't bring you anywhere (most of the time), though disagree that its necessary to talk...
In a club environment is too loud and on the dance floor it should all be non-verbal gaming.
Like what you said about giving her a spin and that it is important to make eye contact and so on... getting back to the first line: "JUST GRINDING WON'T BRING YOU ANYWHERE".

About grinding - the girls WON'T GRIND WITH ANYONE! It will happen only IF she is attracted at least a little psychically to you (or she just drunk chick).

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