Just let me start off by saying that sorry if you see this in another forum section. I just want to get as many answers and tips as possible.



Okay so my friend invited me to go to knotts scary farm with him and his girlfriend. his girlfriend had a friend for me that i started talking to but she hasnt replied since i last messaged her on facebook( friday). now all of a sudden some other guy is going and my friend that invited me told me that hes trying to get at the girl i was taking. what do i do? please help as soon as possible, i need to talk to her and make her my date not his by saturday( when we are going) all answers are wanted.


Basically what do i need to do in order to prevent this guy from stealing my date

You need to grow up and become a man. Youre still a boy and thats very cute. There is a path from boyhood to manhood and there is no short cut, the Gods say that too. Your post shows you have a lot of basic shet to learn, we all have.

Forget Saturday. Use this frustration and educate yourself. Study david de angelo. Study all his Mastery program. 77 laws to attract women.

I assume you are 16, you have a lot coming your way. This is not the last woman on earth, but can be the one that helped you become a man.

A lot of good shet is coming your way, be aware have your eyes open and dont get stuck with 1 bitch.

Check my signatures too.

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Nathan Griffin

Relax, you have worked yourself up way to much over this. Even if you get her as your date you are going to be a nervous wreck and come across as way to needy. The only thing I can really say is have better game than the other guy, and that is in her opinion so no real advice from here can guarantee her as a date. If they say that then they are most likely lying. Personally I would score another date and invite her along, many fishes in the sea and she would probably become jealous, but that isn't always the most likely scenario. Definitely go along anyways, have fun and don't worry about it too much. She will be attracted to you if you have better game and come with that mentality. Don't go there to compete with the guy, be the bigger man. Even if he steals your date just don't let it bother you, easier said than done but it will come across as non-needy and that is very good. Agree with above post, you have a lot of stuff to learn, don't worry it's all a learning process. Learn from it.

but she soooo cute. yea im 16, and my friend that invited me told me to just find another girl, but how am i gonna find a girl to go to knotts with in 4 days thats willing to pay 50 dollars

You still haven't followed my advice, relax and calm down. I never said it was easy, your the one who came to us with the bad scenario. Sounds like you got to learn fast, and the best way is to get out there and score some numbers. And if you game right the 50 dollars won't matter. You may have to lower your standards. Grab some material from the rest of this forum if you want or go natural, your choice. Don't ignore my other advice either, go anyways (with or without a date) and have fun. I gave you the plan B for a reason. Now stop whining and do something about it.

who cares how she looks, don't get attached emotionally to girls before you sleep with them, it is a very bad idea, you will end up getting oneitus for every hot girl that will talk and hang out with you

all you can do, is be you, and control what you do and say, try to go, try to hit on her, be the best you can be to your abilities,

but in the mean time, you need to realize there are so many girls out there, you should never just focus on one, focus on every girl who is above that fuckable line for you, approach them all, get all their numbers, get good at dating/sleeping with all women in general, and after a few years of practice (if you actually practice) you might be able to just go up and take any girl you want,

good luck
*EDIT WHO CAN SPELL PRACTICE NOW HUH?*

^^says it all

too bad he can't spell "practice"

If she decides to go with him you've had bad luck. Nothing you can do.

Bro, forget the 50 bucks. Start learning the art of attraction, and you'll find girls that will pay for your ticket, to manly events like football games.


Here's your goal for the month:

-Go out and open at least 30 girls

That's one girl per day that you need to simply talk to. Open up and say something to them that would possibly open up a dialog between the two of you. Something as simple as "Hey, I bought that same purse for my sister's birthday. How much did you pay?" is a great way for a beginner to open a conversation.

After this month, then start working on your transitions, attraction, comfort, etc. You'll learn all of this in forums or books online such as Magic Bullets.