Alright I'm going to try to make this as short as possible. (It's not short lol)
I met this girl at the beginning of school. Went out maybe once or twice a week. She likes to party but doesn't get crazy and she has had sex only 4 times (not including me) from what her best friend of 10 years told me along with her. So I asked if she was going but she said I wasn't planning on it but I told her I was going so she changed her mind and went. We ended up having drunk sex but we both remember and it was very passionate I might add. After that I wanted to think about things and make sure if I liked her or not so I backed off a little for 3 weeks. She never started initial contact really in the first place so I only texted her once or twice a week to set up a time to hangout. We would hangout always at night and take a walk around campus or just sit and talk and this would range from 30min to 2 hours. I now realize I like her (5-6 weeks since that one night) and I want to get to know her more. So I texted her Saturday around 11 ish and asked if she wanted to grab some lunch later. She texted back around 3ish saying she was asleep. I responded Okay, maybe next time then! She replied YeAaa. I don't know if that was a don't ask again or ask again. So I waited a couple days and I was free on Monday and asked around the same time if she wanted to grab lunch but she once again replied, I was sleepen. But only 20 min after. I didn't get lunch yet so I asked if she still wanted to go but she said she had class. Today I texted her Hey! she said Hay and I asked how her day went. But I got no response. I'm not trying to overthink this but I need some help/insight on what to do. I feel like I'm getting mixed signals because at times she is very talkative and times she can be shy.
Good
Whenever she sees me from a far or when I'm not looking she stares at me.
I was in a suit yesterday and I saw her ahead of me but walking the other way. She did a double take. But she went into the cafe really fast (tinted windows) like she was avoiding me.
If she says no to hanging out she will always offer a different time (like the next day etc)
She will smile if I smile at her or vise versa.
She laughs at my jokes.
She's always at the same parties I'm at but never talks to other guys in "that sense" I've seen her reject guys right in front of me.
I think she has tried to make me jealous but I already knew the dude was her friend so I played off the IDGAF
The other day she texted me this back to back to back
Can we do the hockey draft online?
NVM
Are you going to the online hockey draft tonight?
I responded and we met up.
The Bad:
She did not respond to me when I asked how her day went.
She gives short answers close to one word. (Maybe she doesn't like texting?)
If I "accidently" lean my leg next to hers when we're sitting she moves away fast.
Overall I do like her and I think she like me but she's shy. I don't want to pressure her or scare her away and I think she doesn't know what to do to show she like me. I don't know either because I have never tried to be with a shy girl before. I also don't want to come off needy.
If you could please comment I would appreciate it. I don't want to be in a holding pattern anymore and I want to make a real move but the RIGHT one. I like this girl because of her personality and the connection we had while having sex... It was the best I've ever had... haha.
CHAT