I'm 18 and a lot of cute girls I see are 21 or 22, If I tell them they are cute and I wanted to come say hi would I get blown out or would they give me the time of day? I've never tried it because I assume they won't even mess with guys younger than them especially 3 or 4 years younger. What do you think?

ou have good ambitions and it's a positive trait that you enjoy the company of older women, it shows a mature side about your age. In this scenario specifically, what we think of this matter is of absolute no importance. The reason is you haven't tried yet.

If you go out and talk to just a few girls, and come back here and tell us their reactions, the advice that can be provided will actually mean something to you.

But, i'm not going to leave you hanging. I think you should absolutely go up to some of these girls and tell they are cute. This seems to be of interest to you, and it wouldn't be fair to yourself if you didn't act on it.

Peace,

Sam

Don't say "you're cute" they hear this all the time, and makes you seem too eager.

Look, things are only as big of an issue as you make them out to be.

If you are going to cold call on a chick...unless you can get by on your good looks alone, you may find that approach not very successful....especially with cute chicks...why? Because the HBs...the 8.5's and above KNOW they are cute...they have been told they are cute countless times...so leading with that is DLV (demonstrating low value).

You need to lead with your personality...get them talking. The forums are loaded with tons of openers...My Two favorite though are telling them the story about your buddy who was dating a girl for 3 yrs then broke up with her...now he just started dating another girl 3 weeks ago...the new GF found pics of the old GF in his night stand and she is DEMANDING that he BURN them...ask the girls if they think that is reasonable or over-reacting...chicks LOVE to give their opinions...before you know it you will be in the middle of a lively conversation (a f/u if they all agree and say it is unreasonable...is to say "what if some of the pics are nudes?"...that will get them going...(one word of caution...if these chicks are really hot....then you have to act as though you only have a minute to talk to them...that you were on your way out but you saw them and had to ask them....I always do this...and 2mins later..they always forget you "had" to go....

My other favorite opener is to get 2 different colognes..put one on each wrist....tell them you are doing a survey and you want their opinion on which is better...if they are receptive, then let them sniff a sample from behind each ear....i have done this and if I am feeling playful...I will recoil when one does it and playfully accuse her of licking my neck....(puts them off balance immediately)...

I NEVER tell a hot looking babes she is hot. Quite the OPPOSITE....i NEG the hell out them...that drives them CRAZY and most will PROVE their worth to you. Now don't insult them....a perfectly delivered neg is a "compliment" that really isnt one at all....great example....say the chick has perfect hair....you say something like...wow...nice hair...i love the way you colored it...or....wow that outfit is really in this year....there's a girl over on the other side of the bar with the same outfit.

If you aren't into NEGS...then make THEM demonstrate value to YOU! Turning the tables on a HB gets them VERY interested...the classic question...is this.. "You know..it seems like everyone in this place is good looking...but looks aren't enough...tell me something...if I were going to set you up with my brother...what 3 qualities about you would set you apart from everyone else?" Most chicks will try to prove themselves....YOU'RE IN! For the very very rare ones that roll their eyes or ignore you...you turn immediately to her friend...and say..."You dont have to prove anything to me...(the implication is that she is hotter than the main target).....and go immediately into CUBE gaming...or 5 questions or some other mid game rap...the hot babe will be FROZEN out and she will go nuts vying for ur attention...sometimes, they walk away (shit test)...ALWAYS LET THEM WALK AWAY....THEY ALWAYS ALWAYS COME BACK!

Also....i NEVER buy a chick a drink until she has bought me one first. I tell them that especially if they ask me to buy them one (SHIT TEST). If we can't agree who buys one first....I scam them with the 5 questions routine...it works EVERY TIME...

good luck!

Remember..if you treat this like a video game and have fun with it and don't take failures personally (but instead learn from your mistakes) you will go a long way!

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Atomicglow

haha, the same as if she were younger to you. "Age is not a factor in game. Just game" ;D

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