There is this girl i have been seeing now for a couple weeks who i've had over at my place 3 times. The last 2 times we have made out for a while, with me displaying body language indicating that I want to go further. She tells me "I'm going to fast". She just got out of a 5 year relationship a month ago and seems to have trust issues. She tells me she is really attracted to me and is already asking when she can come over next. Is there anything I can do or say to increase my chances of progressing things next time...Any dark arts or tactics is welcome lol.

two things you can do to help are build tension and comfort. im sure you know how to build tension lots of kino, flirting, and dont make out with her all night cause she will eventually get her fill. when you kiss be the first to pull away and throughout the night each time you kiss it can be longer and longer with more intense kino but always pull out so she wants more.

i was hooking up with this hb that was just getting out of a 3 year ltr. we would always be fooling around until it got to a point where she had lmr so one night i kept the messing around really light so she wouldnt pull out and leave and she stayed over and we just snuggled and fell asleep and i think this was what built the comfort for me to get the close next time we chill. hopefully this works for you.

ahhhh being the first one to pull away...that's one I'm forgetting...Thanks...


Also, i was thinking of acting bored and saying something along the lines of this reminding me of highschool...But I'm worried she could flip that on me. Thoughts??

two ideas, either creat more tension, make her more horny, and be more agressive, and just plow through the resistance until a solid, no/rejection, anything else just agree and proceed,

or option 2, create tension via playing the resistor, blame her, set up challenge for her, tell her, listen I know we have been having fun, but I want to take things slow, every time you come over you keep turning me on, and it is getting hard to keep it up, I know what you are doing and I will not be so easily seduced, then resist her a bit when she starts trying to get things going, she will play into the role more if you make it convincing, and when you escalate on her, and she resists or calls you on it, say, why did you have to *insert thing that turns you on* it is really making me horny/turning me on, you need to change that/stop it/stop wearing that

Hey man. If she is having trust issues, just do future projections. Eg tell her

"Do you know a pizza restaurant on XXX street? I like it. We can go there on Monday."

She is just maybe worried that guys will just FC her and leave.

One very good technique to blow off LMR is AFC Adam's. Before you start to kiss.. say something like.. "Allright I feel bad that you just got out from a 5 year relationship.. I do not want to sleep with you.. it's the code that I always follow with every women... and instead of sleeping with them.. I tease them to death". So start teasing the shit out of her. She already knows you DONT want to fuck her... so when you will start to rub your hands on her and kiss her really passionate... her tension will build up even more inside her. "Women want things that are hard to get". She just got refused by a man to have sex with her.. you said NO.. not her.. therefore, shes not in control of the situation. She's going to work for you and after you tease her she's going to come to a point where she'll be like fuck that lets have sex. Than you say: I said that I dont hve sex with women who are in your situation. It will only drive her even more horny. I hope you understand this technique. Hope I helped mate! Peace out!

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