Okay basic run down:

I met this girl through a friend on a night out, we instantly hit it off and had a good time. No stops in conversation, no awkwardness and a few laughs.

We exchange numbers and go on two nights out, on both nights we kiss.

She says she wants to get to know me so i take her to dinner. Amazing time with her, no awkwardness again, a lot of kino at the end of the night.

But the major problem i have with her is that i always have to start something with her. She will never start texting me ...etc unless i do. But when i do the conversation and fun flows great. Have i failed to make a greater attraction for her to want to talk to me? whats with all the kino, kissing... etc?

Im thinking of not talking (texting or calling) her for the next few days and see how it pans out. If she doesnt i might call her mid next week asking if she wants to see a movie, or should i just forget it???

I would honest plow through until you get laid and then begin to pull back. Next date invite her over your place for a movie. See how she reacts.

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I kinda want a relationship with her, i think thats why my gameplan hasnt been so great because ive cut corners with things i would have said to make sure she isnt put off. Movie over mine sounds good i may leave this weekend can call her monday.

yea definitally agree, do it early in the week. isolate, cuddle, and get it in.

My friend is getting married and they banged the first night them met. The eariler you get it in the better even if you are looking for a relationship.

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the best way to get a relationship with her to to hook up with her as soon as possible - I think Fuze is correct. It also sounds like you need to read some PUA books if your taking her to dinner and movies and ineffective stuff like that.

If this offends your moral sensibilities your probably on the wrong website.

So you would all recommend calling her up and inviting her over for a movie at mine?

Yea. It's to the point where she should know what a 'movie' your house means. Just go for it, you'll be fine

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I agree with Luke, Movie night is always an aggressive move good for fence sitting girls who are getting stale. If she comes over for movies shes committing to some action, if she doesn't come over you have to decide if its worth your time to try to ramp up the attraction again through more passive means, which I don't do as I'm too lazy.

oh, and I would text her the movie at home invite in this case and not call her. Ill explain that if you want.

All is going good. On the day i was going to call her she called me asking if i want to see a movie this weekend!