theres a girl i grew up with for real like my little sister.. and no i dont want to fuck her or date her i just want to take care of her.
she were normal till she got this answer from the hospital that she has diabetes, then she got realsed from the army started going out every night, smoke some weed then i think she started even cocaine, and i know i have to do something but i want to have ways to make her listen without gettin crazy on me or something u must know how is it when someone knows he is wrong and then someone comes and tells him that something is wrong..

thanks for the comments

Hey pun! This is really one of many Alpha male traits to take care of your loved ones and that is good. This is really beyond pick up it's something on a whole different level. But since I had many experiences with these matters I'll share some with you. First of all you have to understand where this girl is coming from. Why did she become like this? The answer is simple a distraction from pain. She had some expectations and a plan and was really really hopping she was going to reach that goal but she didn't. It's like seeing a building you build with your bare hands collapse in front of you. Now, some people (very rarely the really really strong people) would think and understand that the building collapsed but they will also understand that what happened happened and the only way to survive and live normally again is to build the building again. If they wont build the building they will be poor or in the worst case die on the streets. These people are very very rare! Most people would be depressed and cry and cry and cry and give up because they don't want to deal with this hardship again. But this agony will always pop up in their head and wont let them sleep. They will need a way to get rid of them so what do they do? Simple, distract themselves from the though. They will travel, borrow money and go to restaurants, parties etc... and live their life in delusion because when their borrowed money depletes they will have nothing, no building to live in. The same with your friend her plan got ruined and now she's finding ways to distract herself because she doesn't want to think about these thoughts.

Saying words or explaining to her will not help. She knows that what you saying is true. She knows what she is doing is bad. She is afraid of reality. Now what you have to do is simple. Be the role model. Your an example of a person who lives his life in reality. Because you don't do cocaine and all these stuff to cover up for your problems. Show her that living in reality is not so scary after all. Be good to her. Hang out with her and have fun. Show her all the kewl friends you have. And main thing show her how kewl and happy you are. It might take a while but a person becomes like the people he hangs around. Good luck! Hope this helps.

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