So last night (and again this morning) I was having sex with this HB8. I was pretty fucked up when we started having sex at my place that night. The sex was great, she was sexy, the night was fun, but throughout the whole loving making session I could not keep my dick consistently hard and no matter what she did I could not cum. I chalked it up to being a victim of whiskey dick and decided to take a break and sober up by getting a early morning breakfast.

So then after a couple hours we get back to my place and the girl says that she wants to change. She ends up getting naked in front of me again and slowly putting on her panties. At which point I walked over, took them off, and tried to have sex again. BUT WITH THE SAME RESULTS! I mean she was riding me like a animal, and she was looking sexy as fuck, I should of had a raging boner and came in minutes. I was able to keep it hard after awhile but I was unable to blow my load.

Then I thought that maybe a blowjob would do the trick, and this girl can suck a golf ball through a garden hose. When I asked her where she wanted me to cum she said the most beautiful words I think I have ever heard "Oh, you can just cum in my mouth.. But let me know before!" And once again, hearing those words should of caused me to drown the chick in my baby batter. But after a nice long blowjob with no results (didnt even come close) I felt like I should give her a break.

So now I need to know. WTF is going on? I mean I cant even last 5 mins jerking off to porn and this girl failed to make me cum after hours of sex??? We even ditched the condom after awhile and going bareback didnt help. How can I fix this? I use to be so afraid of blowing my load to soon but now not being able to blow it at all feels worse lol. This girl is really into me and she had a good time, so I've still got a shot with her. But I would like to fix this ASAP so I can unless the beast on this girl the next time.

Maybe your gay? jk jk

Maybe you don't really have any particular feelings for her, you know she's hot but maybe she isn't what your looking for or she's missing something and that's why your having trouble? Sit down and evaluate her: do I find her attractive, does she make me happy, is the sex good or maybe I like her/respect her to much too much...etc etc there must be something that isn't right. It's probably psychological man but worst case scenario maybe you need to see a doctor about a certain blue pill.

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You might have anxiety, or nervous or something. If you can jack off, you dont need a blue pill.

If it helps, masturbate less and you can buy over the counter sex pill which work.

If you watch tonnes of porn, lay off it a little. See what happens.

edit: but it's a snowball effect, the more you want to come the more anxiety you generate, the less likely you can perform.

zzzz has a point with the anxiety thing. you have come to a point where you are too worried about not blowing. if it was the other way around you'd be worried about blowing. is she too loose?

i was having sex with an extremely attractive woman but she was a bit loose coz she had 3 kids. she barely touched me for me to get hard but I could never blow.

control your anxiety and watch less porn. maybe watch porn with her

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Hahaha this hilarious post made me lol hard man Watusippin!:lol:

Ok now to the point.
Most possibilities are already said though. I think that

1) You're wanking too much. Try masturbating less
2) You don't like her enough
3) You have some issues or problems at home, work, friends, ... and thus can't get your mind fixed on sex or enjoy the moment
4) you worry too much about performing during sex
5) she is just not tight enough
6) you need foreplay
7) you need viagra

Take care!

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haha thanks for the replies. I honestly think that the main issue is that I have no connection with her. I mean shes a sex goddess and should be rocking my world, but even when I was with her last night I found my mind wandering during a BJ and I felt like I was forcing the make-out. She was even telling me how much she enjoys anal sex and all I got was a slight flinch in my manhood lol. I had no real passion behind the experience.

Shes not the tightest girl in the world but I wouldn't call her loose. Usually I do worry about performing but the past couple nights I didn't care, I just wanted my cock to be hard and to rail this girl like... a monorail (or something).... I was only able to finish last night by jerking myself off, she was cool about it and let me unload over her chest (aim was off, ended up being a facial, but she was down lol)..

Anyways IDK whats up, recently I have cut waayy back on my solo adventures and porn but maybe thats my issue. I even found myself trying to recall some hot porn scenes in my head to keep me hard, but that just sounds really fucked up when I am staring at a naked girl on my bed open to anything I want to do to her.

I am going to take a couple days break from her and sex, mostly because my dicks rawer than a... piece of sushi? (need to work on these puns).... so hopefully after a few days I can be myself again and get some real experiences from this girl.

Nice one.



Got me laughing again

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