dont text her today. Wait a day. And if she doesnt, then remind me. We would text her. And you not texting is also a kind of neg and iod

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So can't that be applied the other way around (i.e., her not texting me is an iod?). ANy recommendations for reestablishing contact with her in a few days?

her not replying you is an iod thats why we are not going to text her for a day so that it balances. Remind me after a day, i would guide you as what to text etc. Dont worry, i am here

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Thanks man

I may have an idea and I wanted to run it by you and get your opinion.

I have met a lot of her friends and most of them are actually really cool. Here's what I was thinking: On friday asking some of her friends to join me at this bar that her and I usually go to. Sending her a text when we're there saying something to the effect of: "Hey Hey Hey! At the bar with so and so. Join us!"


There are two ways I can go about this:

1) Text her before going out and asking for her friends number.

2) Connecting with one of her friends on Facebook and going out with one of them, and thus texting her when we are already out.


Most of her friends that I met are guys. I am new in this town, so I don't know a whole lot of people. If I go this route, I won't text her all week to demonstrate higher value (which is true, I am a busy guy). What do you think of this?

Houston, we have contact.

She texted me, "Jeez, we met so many people at bar X this weekend."

I responded, "Yup never a dull moment at bar X. Not even when it it raining. hehe"


Now I wonder what's next to reestablish attraction!!!!! Any advice?

as for as you going out with her friend and inviting her is concerned, i wound say not to do it. Going out with your friends and inviting her out would be kool.
Now for building attraction
fuck it. Dont get confused by this. Assume attraction. Again ASSUME ATTRACTION. Assume that she is attracted to you and have a fun chat with her, qualify her, build comfort, escalate. And i would again remind you of the mindset,"she is a fun girl who is attracted to me and i am going to share fun times with her."

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That is awesome advice! I just kinda feel weird about her rejecting me 3 times on Saturday:

A) The breakfast
B) Movie date
C) Going out to a bar


while at the same time lying about not feeling well! That line is a classic excuse!!! lol

The good: she did text me eventually (although I haven't heard back from her since).
That must mean that she has some interest in me still, right? So should I wait a day now and text her to reestablish comfort or should I go gold turkey till the weekend and ask her out?

the real answer to why she rejected three time is not that is is not attracted to you or she is a flake
BUT
She rejected because you give her a chance to reject by offering.
You didnt calibrate. You should be able to tell whether a girl is going to accept or reject before making a move. You shoul read her behaviour and the situation and if you feel that a move is not going to work, dont make that move but you made it three time but i am happy that mistake is giving you a chance to learn.
Now send her a text, a casual one, like, "hey, brat !did you that new song? Its great, i just downloaded that and its rocking " use the same format
1. Nickname
2. Question
3. Random statement

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But if she liked me, why would she reject me? hehe

When I ask her out, should I call her (I am thinking that it would be easier to get an idea of whether she is interested in going out again if I can actually listen to her words, etc). What do you think?

And you're right, this is absolutely a steep learning curve for me, but I am learning tons by going out and doing it! haha

You are being immature here and thats why most of the guys lose girls
why would she reject you if she liked you? It could be a shit test, do you persist or run away? There could be a million other reasons that have got nothing to do with you.
And you want to call her? Dont you see she is not even responding to your texts and you are going to call her and ask her out? You think that is going to work? You first need to get her comfortable talking to you. And in your case texting would be better. After she is comfortable talking to you and shows a bit of interest, you can call.
You are behaving like an insecure guy, what you are thinking comes from your mind and it has nothing to do with her as you are not reading the situation and not calibrating your game accordingly. I told you to text her. You know why? So that we could calibrate and adjust our game. Remember this for future, "whenever you are not sure about what to do or where you stand with a girl, make a move and calibrate your target's response and adjust your game accordingly"

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Sounds good man! One last thing, should I freeze her for a couple of days or start texting her right away!

I appreciate all of your advice man!

Now send her a text, a casual one, like, "hey, brat !did you that new song? Its great, i just downloaded that and its rocking " use the same format
1. Nickname
2. Question
3. Random statement
send it right NOW

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Awesome thanks buddy!!!

hey Man, I know you feel like shit but it's very obvious what has happened!
basically, you had a game plan @ the beginning and you followed the instructions using can material (which has been proved to work!) and you could kiss-close the HB. NOTICE: up to this point you were treating her like that playerish alpha male that you should. but then later when she complied to the kiss, you thought: hahah, I'm in man, I don't need any game from here on!, so you opened up to the girl, spilling your guts about how beautiful she is and started supplicating to her :
1st mistake: you called right the day after. (I would wait for her to call, if she didn't for a week then I will give her a call (in the concept of: are you still alive??))
so that she won't feel she's got you by the balls.
THE BEST WAY TO BLOW YOURSELF OUT WITH A GIRL WHEN YOU'VE ALREADY HOOKED HER IS TO SHOW HER THAT SHE HAS THE HIGHR VALUE.
that's what you've done here :
i.e. 1.you stepped forward
2. you accepted her change of plans
3. you offered another plan the same fucking day!!!
by the time you've done this she know's that she has you by the balls and you're not fun anymore. (NO CHALLENGE!!) , so now you're projecting the image of a wuss bag instead of a PUA. what do you expect??
first rule of the pickup community:
CARE ABOUT WHAT THE GIRL RESPONDS TO, DON'T GIVE A F..ABOUT WHAT IS SUPPOSED TO WORK! .
I've been in your situation man. I know how it feels.
but then If you think you've fallen for her then you'll never gonna get her. (remember she's a flake 2)
my suggestion, ignore her and if you could make her jelous , then do!
e.g. ask one of your girlfriends to come on your next date and give you a kiss one the chick or something. (shoe pre-selection+ social proof).
good luck mate + please don't get on-itis on this girl man, lot's of fish in the sea!!

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