Hi Im new to the whole pua lifestyle, I want to find out who I am, Im totally lost I dont know who I am and where I fit in, I have a gf and a small group of friends but when we go out I tend to feel out of place even lonely, I want an identity but I dont know where to start.

I know exactly how you feel and would like to say you are definitely not alone despite the lack of responses. I'm not new to dating or anything of the sorts but I'm totally gun shy. I have trouble actually getting out there and doing approaches. Unlike you, I don't have any friends and am an introverted person almost never leaving the house to do much. Hopefully in this great transformation we can help each other. I'll be here to help you with any concerns you might have and hopefully you can help me.

Hey Swaziboy, welcome. So you want to know who you are and internalize the PUA lifestyle...ok.

Ask yourself:

Why am I with my girlfriend?
Am I an introvert? Why? Why am I this way? What is it that I feel wohen it comes to expressing myself?
Why do I want to become a PUA? Do I want women? Do I want more friends? Do I want confidence? Do I want to gain all of the above?
What makes me happy in life? How can I integrate more of that into my life?
What is my definition of a relationship?
Am I a caring person? Am I a person of principles?

If you get to answer some of those questions, you may get to understand a bit more of who you are.

Good luck

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Cat_eyes you my 1st;) thanks man glad Im not the only 1, I wont forget you I'll help out where I can. Bansario I appreciate what you did Iv never asked myself that before, I can aready feel like a person on the inside, it a long way stil to go tho but Im game.