So, for who read the first post.
There was that scene when I almost got punched and was literally told to f*ck off by some of the guys because I threw a comeback to something that was meant to put me down.
Ok, that’s bullying and isn’t fair man.
I just realised that this forum isn’t just two plus two equals four, it has A LOT going between the lines.
So, before I keep writing more about what I do with the Jackals, I need to talk a bit about the guys that got me started with this stuff here in Birmingham and really helped me to set things on course.
I am grateful to Lee Adam and Keiran for all their support.
Thanks Keiran ,you invited me to the S&L to see the guys for the first time. ( Remember? You asked for what my skill level is and I said I fucked my mother’s gym teacher). Really sleek, elegant game, massive self confidence and loads of subtleties that I just can’t catch at this level. Fuck’s sake man, you’re the XXI century dandy, awesome job. Didn’t get to talk too much really, but still awesome awesome presence to have around.
Thanks Lee for the cool texts each Wed and Fri and man you are a really fun crazy guy, cheers for helping me get that stripper ha. I am specifically grateful for all the mentoring on more inner stuff regarding game and just being a cool, chill person. Really good pointers on everything, one more time thank you for ”taking me under your wing.” Really appreciate how you made this game thing be just seem like the most normal, down to earth thing, keep remembering your catchphrase : “there’s a two set over there, a three set by the door, etc”

Adam, my apologies for what I’ve said. You were right man: I keep praising JACKAL left and right, but mysteriously forgotten to send my thanks to you guys. Cheers for inviting me to your bday that time and for all the crazy fun times we had with them strippers or just chatting about random stuff. Great humour, great attitude, oh and VJ’s stag. I was really disappointed about that scene at the PU meet-up (felt like I was being lied in a way, having some sort of invisible line I am not allowed to cross). That’s cool either way, no hard feelings on this side.
And Alex, we didn’t really click I know, we’re probably far too bratty, “you wouldn’t take my shit, I wouldn’t take your shit” sort of stuff. Thanks anyway, really appreciate your tips on Brum.
Shouts to all the other guys that started off with me: Tim, Rich, Rich B, Fray, Sam, Wing and a couple of guys who I’ve only seen once so sorry I didn’t remember your name (still got that problem here in the UK).
So everything I said back there is 100% true, from the bottom of my heart, is backed up by experience, but have no FR though

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Now, I chose to join JACKAL’s crew because it’s easier to me in some way: it’s the same sort of thing I got used to back home. For now being action-based is the best thing I could do really. I honestly have no idea about the politics behind it, for me it’s just game: my FRs are just about what I do, have no clue why some guys here don’t get along and all.
So, back what happened this week-end.
Basically, I’m now in “learning mode” so I’m doing a lot of sets and following JACKAL’s 12 step structure. I got 4 or 5 #closes this weekend, but they weren’t top interactions, so probably will flake.
Did crazy shit that I wouldn’t thought possible: 2 parallel sets on the first night, 3 parallel sets of the second night, lots of sets with boyfriends, a couple of sets with the whole family there (really funny, I go “Yes I know, I’m probably breaking at least a dozen etiquette rules, I like her, I want her number if that’s ok with you guys. “ )
Or I go for a scottish girl with her family next to her- cheers DOLPHIN for keeping them occupied while I worked.
Mental note to keep JACKAL’s structure solid, or I just wonder off and it all goes down the drain (happened a couple of times).
Me and DOLPHIN invited ourselves to a hen party, there was thins hot 40+ woman there.
I still don’t get what IOIs English women throw. Btw, kino works, got feedback that “I like it that you held me like a real man”. Yes, they get REALLY HORNY if I do the claw on them it seems . But again, it needs to be calibrated.
So, getting back, I was teasing the girl from the henparty that she looks like Amy Childs, “do an Essex accent”, push and pull all the way. I hugged her and whatever, couldn’t tell if she was getting turned on or not.
Again, long story. I basically hugged her, kissed her, did the claw, looked at our reflection and said we make a good couple, etc. She was shit testing me (the shoulder thing, slapping my face, etc) , I just mirrored what she was doing.
Should have told her friends “got something important to talk to your friend here, will be back in a minute” + take her away and kiss her.
I like how I numberclosed, got JACKAL’s card cause my phone died and basically told them the “Yes I got these numbers tonight… I’m looking for an upgrade though”(Cheers Lee for the cool line. If you’re reading this mate, remember the one with “I’m a virgin. Could I get a blowjob please? My mate said it feels good”lol )
So it does happen man: they do leave their friends to come with you, they do kiss on the street, they do like mad kino, etc.
I did get some "politeness sets" (them being polite and talking to me) which I really hate, but it doesn't matter.
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Got two dates planned this week:
1. Girl I fclosed – the plan is to take her home and have a really good time together.
2. Girl I ignored last week: I really like how my intuition is building up: I could tell the girl was really wanting to see me, but I kind of gave her the could shoulder so said I will make up for it. Those were magic words, after she opened up to me.
Need to work on my Phonegame too: JACKAL was right to say that you need a default structure and not count on just your emotions cause it’s impossible to control that.
I’m also quitting Gym, I think it’s rubbish, this gym culture of “staying fit” is just another way to keep you under control. Will exercise by myself from now on.
You should stop the shit posts where you try to make JACKAL look bad. The Jackal Crew is a really good learning environment, feedback and motivation is always ace, you certainly don’t waste time and you don’t count on any weird things. And JACKAL really really puts A FUCKING LOT of energy into this and you can tell.
I did get however a lot tongue-in-cheek because of being so direct and whatever. But seriously guys, what can you expect when you don’t have A LOT of experience with women and open with “You’re so fucking hot, I’m x”. Can’t wait to sort out the learning curve so we get to them really cool results.
Btw, the part with gaming dudes is really useful: you do get used to talking to competitive guys is a cool way. It really helped me on Monday when this dude was trying to put me down… threw comeback, after comeback after comeback.
If I didn’t do them approaches this weekend I couldn’t manage to open this set from uni with 4 dudes and a hot girl. Long story with loads of details, will see how that works out, will keep you posted.
Peace