i'm still VERY new to the Game and i'm at the bottom of the pyramid of being a PUA (major AFC). i'm naturally cocky/funny (DeAngelo program), but i'm unable to get to that part of the conversation with women because i tend to freeze up after the first "Hi" in the silent moment lol.

i tend to go into instant Question/Answer (interview) mode which i know i shouldn't do; and i can't get enough context from the chick so i can continue the convo with what she throughs at me (answers or comments)

what did you guys did (i know my style will be different when i do trial and error), when you guys first started, how to "avoid" the freeze up moment and continue the convo where i can begin to be cocky/funny or just naturally amp up the attraction based on a smooth interaction.

certain questions i need to ask? certain negs i should use? any help is appreciated.

Change your focus to be about her versus about yourself.

Think about how you can male her feel. Think about what she is saying and feeling in this moment.

When you freeze, change your focus.

The words will flow with a good focus.

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Make a girl feel special and she's yours. It's always about them, its your duty to show them that you can offer them something different.

Trick is doing this squeezing them into YOUR frame.

go to a mall not in your own back yard and say hi to every girl you meet, hot, ugly, fat skinny, and just get your confidence up. take a friend or two with you for moral support and other types of support in case you encounter a bf. lol regardless at the end of the day experience comes first then advice. if your a novice then you need to put in some field work first and then sit back and reflect what you could have done better.