Living with my oneitis. Last night we kissed. Advice needed



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PostPosted: Thu Oct 06, 2011 1:00 pm 
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Scrap that. Just got friend zoned haha.

Text I just got:

"Hey friend, Sorry for being a creature last night mate. lets not make things awkward in the house and leave things as they are buddy haha x"

Trying to make a point or what ha :lol:

Ah well It sort of brings closure to my oneitis, Well I hope anyway, I feel fine now but who knows when I sober up. Don't really know what to reply to that but I think this is what I needed in a way.

Just wondering if anyone knew of anything I can do to sort of change her way of thinking as she seems so set in the fact that becuase we live together nothing can EVER happen. She has friend zoned me to my understanding but why make out with me twice and the second time basically let me take it to almost sex. There is obviously something there isn't it? She basically initiated it all.

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Bump, anyone?


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PostPosted: Sat Oct 08, 2011 7:34 am 
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hmm I think that the LMR from your previous post fucked you up.

When she pushed you away 2 times, and you were still trying to fuck her, you were needy and disrespectful. You shouldve made it clear that if she didnt want to fuck you, she should fuck off out of your room instead of turning you on. She knows you want to fuck her because youre a man. She was just teasing the shit out of you, or you didnt turn her on enough.
So conclusion: you shouldve indirectly made it clear that if she doesnt wanna fuck, she shouldnt turn you on. But not in a direct way: like when you did the move the fuck her, and she pushes you away. you shouldve just put your pants on or clothes or w/e and stop, giving her one big kiss that says youre gonna sleep cause youre not putting up with this bullshit. But in a way that you dont really care, because you dont NEED anything to make you happy.

GL.


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Yeah thanks man I think you might be right. Argh why is it when I am drunk I can never think of these things :lol: Definitely should have just said something along the lines of "I think you should go if this aint going anywhere". Damn.

Just to add when she pushed me away it was always her who reinitiated the kissing etc so it wasn't me acting needy/disrespecful but obviously she knew she had the power with me being a guy and my wants.

Can I salvage this? Should I just go out and game some other woman and let her make the move? When we were holding hands I would often sqeeze abnd she would always squeeze back so I know there is compliance there.

Don't really know where to go from here though or to just leave it

Thanks :roll:


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PostPosted: Fri Oct 14, 2011 4:31 pm 
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Well, if she doesn't want to fuck, then you SHOULD NOT NOT NOT verbalize it.
Just get yourself out of the 'I want to fuck her so bad'-mode, because girls sense it, and abuse it.
So when she's pushing you away, you just look at her. You're then thinking, what the FUCK?! And then you just turn away and start doing something else, like texting on your phone.

And ofcourse you should game other women. The more women you get to take home with you while she knows/sees it, the more she wants you. Your mindstate will be:' I like you, but you won't do the things I want. So I need other women.'

I dont know how the girl that youre talking about is, but in general it should work.
It could have the opposite effect, that is that she thinks you want to make her jealous, so she will bring (probably a lot more) men home, to make you jealous. I definitely don't hope so, but always treat her right.

Another option: She is into you, cause you're holding hands and stuff. But she's not an easy girl, she doesn't want to appear like slut in your eyes, so she withholds her pussy. That kind of girls are good GF material, they will cheat a lot less, and has her principles.

Nobody knows :).


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if you have one-itis .. you need to stop it

cut everything off untill you aren't thinking about her anymore.

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If you turn this into a joke, it will become a joke. If you make it awkward, it will be awkward. If you make all of this, and I mean ALL of this a very normal, fun turn of events, then that's what this will be. Stop the micro-analysis. Go with it and have fun. Next time you run into some resistance while making out, just yank your cock out and start stroking it. She'll grab it.

You're welcome.


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