So an HB I already had sex with once (with a condom) will be back in town for a few days and says she doesn't want to have sex because she's afraid of getting pregnant (although at first it sounded like she was saying she didn't want me to expect sex everytime). I really don't know what to tell her, she can't take birth control for some reason, and is claiming the only reason she doesn't want sex is because she's afraid of getting pregnant. Even though we've already done it once.

Any suggestions?

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Imo, that's never a good enough excuse for not having sex. I mean, porn stars have sex for a living, they can stay away from pregnancy, and so can she. There's always a way

EDIT: maybe she just doesn't want to have sex with you?

its a shit test bro, she's trying to see if you want more than sex, or just sex. If you want just sex, its time for another girl. Or you can destroy the test. The trick to shit test is to show her that you know she is testing you. Steal her frame to raise sexual tension

ex: her: " I dont like you"

you: " I don't like you either, OMG we are so much a like that we wouldnt get along!!" said in a calm and joking way so she has to guess at your intention.

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I think she wants to find out if you're into her or just want to fuck her.

I'd say pretend you agree to not have sex, if you arouse her enough she'll change her mind very easily.

Agree with her, tell her that you do not want sex either, you just want to hang out and have fun... What is so complicated! if i had a nickle for every time i heard this bs i would be millionaire... Who said we were going to have sex, i just want to hang out and have fun, change the subject then turn her on when logistics and timing appropriate, then turn her on, put a condom and do her...With that being said it may be another issue maybe she lost attraction or whatever.

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Yeah this is what was at the back of my mind. I'll ignore the situation for now and just work on arousing.

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thats some bullshit advice. if you keep pretending, hiding, using some indirect shit, they will continue giving you bullshit. you´re a man, shes a woman. of course you want to have sex with her. if you pretend to be different, you´re a pussy. thats it.
now, no woman is interested in letting ur dick inside her so you can blow ur load. She wants some hot lovemaking, not you using her to blow ur load. So, there´s nothing wrong with being honest about ur intentions that you want to make love to her and give her pleasure. Convey that. She wants to know if you just want to blow ur load inside her and run away (that she can take nothing away from) or theres something more to it.

She is manipulating , playing with you, don’t worry @skillx360 gave the best advice in my opinion. Just go and have fun, and try to turn the tables around, she wants to have sex trust me , but she has to feel she has the power. She is in control , so turn the tables.

I have no idea what you're trying to say,


My advice was she said something she most likely doesn't really mean, so play along with it rather than fight her about it.

she don't want to get pregnant?

damn...well...anal and blowjobs it is, then

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