So had a short convo over FB with this chick I used to go uni with (which I never really paid particular attention to) over some university stuff, and out the blue she says 'I'm intrigued, are you really this bad boy you make out to be?'..

Now, I haven't gone out with her once, haven't gamed her, I rarely even paid attention to her during the 3 years I was at uni. (She's an HB7 i'd say, just wasn't too interested).

So she probably picked up the 'bad boy' from my FB statuses/other peoples posts, etc.. What's a good answer for that? Got a nice response for 'you're a player?' but never had a chick saying that..

Thanks!

Down play it with humor: " No, I actually like poetry and long walks on the beach"

" no way, I'm more of a knit/bake a cake type of guy"

That'll make her curious to find out more about you.

However if you don't want her to see you as this bad boy the over play it " hell yeah, I skin cats alive and ride a Harley"

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Why would you downplay who you are. If you are a bad boy.

HB: Are you really as bad as people say?
PUA: I dont know, I never said that I was a bad boy, others do. What do you think?



Concerning players, I got that a few times.

HB: Are you a player.
Ezo: Yes I am, I am a pickup artist, maybe you have heard of it? Basically it is... bla bla bla.

I am NOT dodging anything. I am NOT making excuses. I am NOT avoiding the question. I am NOT downplaying it.

Do ANY of the NOTs and you will lose credability and come off as bad.

This is a matter of if you set the rules or if she does.

If you do any of the NOTs, you let her decide, and she will decide that since you act as if it something wrong about it, you suck.

If you do not make excuses and act as if there is nothing wrong with it (which it isnt) you bring her into your world. She enters your reality where it is completely OK to be a player, even strange to not be one.

See where I am going with this?

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

Good sutff, I'd go with Ezo on this one.. As he said Id rather play ball in my court, than hers.. (generally speaking)

Certainly... Ezo is on a higher level of thinking than I am when it comes to women. My only rebuttle is just make sure you have the character to pull this off genuinly.

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