Last night I met an Asian girl talked for a bit. Gave me her name. And found her and friended her on facebook. As in we are friends. Are there any recommendations as to how to go about this? I was thinking about asking her to hang out but I don't know how to word it or how soon to message her or anything. Help please!

send her a pic of your package...actually you might scare her off

Don't wait. Do it now. And don't ask, suggest of command in a friendly way. Expect her to say yes or she will sense your uncertainty and become uncertain herself. Give her a good reason to hang out with you. "Let's do X because Y." Where Y is something you can offer her.

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Yea, tell her "Let's do sex (X) so I can give you a pearl neckless (Y)"

I'd probably wait to mention sex until when face to face unless it was already hot beforehand.

I definitely wouldn't offer a physical gift. Yikes!

"Because I will make you cum like crazy" would be a better reason if suggesting sex.

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Hmm...... What's a good Let's do (X) so I can give you (Y)? Any suggestions? Keep in mind I really don't know her that well. Only talked to her briefly and got her name and found her through a friend's facebook. That friend being someone who I only met that same night.

Or is it better that I just plain wait until next time I see her?

If you know you'll be seeing her soon I'd hold off. Asking a girl out in person requires more effort and she'll intuit this and likely be more flattered, if she's interested.

Okay. What should I say? Also how do you ask if she has a boyfriend? I've never really found a good way to find out if someone has a boyfriend.

It's implicit it's a date if you ask her out for certain activities, or times of day. If it's for dinner, that's kinda obvious it's a date, as would be a drive-in movie (which I wouldn't suggest for a first date cause it connotes intimacy and she may not be feeling you like that this point).

I wouldn't ask directly if she's got a man, I'd make the first approach light and airy, because YOU ARE TRYING TO DETERMINE IF SHE'S GOOD ENOUGH FOR YOU.

Don't act like she's the end-all/be-all just play it cool playa. One of the best ways to do this is by asking more chicks out - getting more irons on the coal so-to-speak that way you wont smell of desperation when you're with a girl you like because you know you've got other OPTIONS - this is key.

In person is definitely better if you will see her again soon.

Say it the same way you would say it to her if you have already been sleeping with her for 6 months.

Imagine she wants to sleep with you and you are making her wait - and then act as if it were true.

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Yea, try think of an ex gf you felt comfortable with when talking to her...and talk to her that way. Women will intuit if you're nervous, so at least this will make you come across as more natural (ironically), and put off the air that it's nothing for you asking girls out cause you go out with them all the time (in other words indirectly shows you have value).

I'd spark up a convo with her, keep things brief and near end be like "hey lets go to this really cool gelato place I heard about this Friday" Or wherever. Just have a plan. if you don't have a plan to take her somewhere, don't bother asking her out until you do. Also make it sound exciting, and if u get her out, think of a place that's near another place that maybe cool to chill after like a beach, or arcade, or whatever. And keep in mind if she's high or low energy. If she's chill then wherever you go should reflect that, so long as it's not too subdued.

Keep in mind if she says she cant go out Friday, don't stress...don't get all reactive just let it slide and continue the convo but end it (not abruptly or you'll seem like a lil bitch). Say to her, "some other time then, have an awesome weekend" and talk to her a few more times, ask her out again but not right away.

I actually tried it with a different girl. It was just with a coworker.

"Let's get coffee so we can catch up"

And we're getting coffee this Friday.

Also what do you guys think about elevation as in you start with coffee and then you go to lunch then go to a social event then dinner? Me and a friend were saying that a relationship should be built upon something. It sounded okay to me. I just wanted to hear what you guys thought? Because I'm not really looking for a one night stand right? I want an actual relationship.

Although, should I be looking for a one night stand? I kind of feel like that AFC who's looking for marriage. I constantly meet new women and think to myself could I see myself married to her. Thoughts?

Sounds good.

Don't overthink things - "paralysis by analysis" - if you operate this way around her you'll never be in the moment and she wont be able to see your personality and nobody will have any fun. Forget elevation, just go for coffee, enjoy and take it from there!

Ooooooh Isn't getting coffee time for mid game?? I think I should post in mid game. Or wait that's Day 2. Should I post in Day 2?