Ye this bartender was saying the same stuff. I've honestly never received so many compliments at one time before lol. Like I said, you've got to be able to handle it, but its now my new fav place to grab a drink with a girl.

What do you mean by become extremely sexual? Are you talking about conversation wise? Asking things like "where is your favorite place to have sex?" or questions along those lines?

Once again man, I appreciate the advice.

I usually try to avoid sex questions, but it's only because I dont really like to know anything about women's previous sexual lives. Not my style, but if you are curious enough go for it.

I don't know if I can put in words the kind of sexual behavior I adopt, but maybe an example can illustrate it.

I met this girl, and invited her out for some drinks (used the same routines I have on my website by the way). Anyway, we went to my favorite bar (with the gay bartender) and had some stimulating conversation. We ended up making out at the bar, and then went to smoke some hookah. She lives in Jersey, so I offered her a ride to the train station (no way I was going to Jersey lol). While waiting for the train, I ended up fingering her in my car. After a while we ended up saying good bye (no big deal).

After a couple of days, we talked again. That's when I become a bit more sexual than necessary. I had already made out and finger her, so why should I be shy about sex?! So in the middle of the conversation, I'd say stuff like

Me: "Wow, that was a fun first date...you know what I think was really hot..."
HB: "What?"
Me: "I think the hottest part of all was how wet you were...damn...that was really nice"
HB: "OMG..."
Me: "What? Weren't you wet?"
HB: "I mean, yes, but you dont have to say it" (shit test)
Me: "Well, I'm not a shy person, and if I experience something I like, I wont hesitate letting you know. Is that bad?"
HB: "No...I mean, it's actually good...blah blah blah"

Basically, I get away with all this by being confident and knowing that she was totally into me.

By the way, this kind of behavior must be congruent with your initial behavior. Meaning, if you become this kind of person, but initially you were not so "open minded" your behavior won't be congruent. She'll feel you're fake, and it may backfire on you.

I know this is a long post, but I try the best way I can to illustrate my point.

Once I know a girl is into me, I throw away the shyness and take charge of the situation. I let her know i'm into her, and I'm not afraid to point out that she's obviously into me. If she says something like "how do you know I'm into you?" I simply respond "Well, you wouldn't be talking to me if you weren't...women don't waste their time when they're not interested in someone..." (confidence).

Confidence and calibration my friend...

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