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| barca | PostPosted: Fri Oct 07, 2011 8:05 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Fri Sep 23, 2011 7:43 pm Posts: 11 | | I was in a bar last night waiting for my wing when i spotted a 2set i realy wanted 2 open but i froze it just didnt feel natural 2 be opening in a bar solo all i kept thinkin was they r going 2 think whats this loser doin here alone, in day game it doesnt bother me because your not expected 2 be with people.
Any one any good openers and thoughts on how 2 handle this situation next time
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| Vaako | PostPosted: Fri Oct 07, 2011 8:53 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Fri Sep 23, 2011 9:14 am Posts: 36 Location: Warsaw, Poland | | Even your wing in there u have to get into set and open solo... So whats a problem?
Now you see what's happen when 3 seconds rule is broken - fear commin in, you wondering and finally you are frozen. Just get there, say Hi, open them just for fun - get into active talk mood, just have fun, even blow this set - it's no big deal! Nothing there is big deal!
There is no point of talking about openers - collection of them you can find in database and other topics.
You should check very nice video from Mystery and Matador, when I get home from job gonna link it or private message to me if I forget... Beautiful show how's done with 2s set _________________ Knowledge is power, guard it well.
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| liam85 | PostPosted: Fri Oct 07, 2011 10:47 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Thu Sep 22, 2011 7:58 pm Posts: 1 Location: ormskirk | | Iv had similar experience 2 barca i gamed alone at night a few weeks back cus my wing let me down the opening was no problem but when they asked why i was alone or wheres your mates it was a bit weird i jus had 2 make shit up like they gone the toilet or sumthin i was honest n told one 2set id come out alone n they looked at me like i was a dick, i think if you cn get a wing with you youl get betta results but if ur wing lets u down n your goin just sit in all night fuck it n get out alone nothin 2 loose.
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| Hawke91 | PostPosted: Fri Oct 07, 2011 10:59 am | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum | Joined: Thu Aug 11, 2011 5:05 pm Posts: 112 | | I think that gaming in a bar is one of the easiest paths you can take. It's really easy to escalate and build up you game in there. For example, go to a bar where you know you'll have friends or it's just packed, you can go all by yourself, as i do. Opening is the easiest of all, wing or no wing (i've never used a wing in a bar) just do an opinion opener or whatever you're comfortable with. Then on, just be yourself and escalate. I'd recommend that ignore tactic (i think it's from the Game when Mystery was teaching Style) and then isolate the girl. If you cannot isolate, or want to move around or just feel like it's looking like you'll freeze out, then later, considering you've shown yourself from an awesome side, just tell that "hey i gotta get back to my friends but i'd love to continue this conversation" a la Style style. Bang, you get the nr-close. You don't even have to have friends in there, just go to a different set and open them. You shouldn't feel uncomfortable opening, most of the people are drunk or halfway there anyways, and even if you do, then get a drink or two for good vibes and flow on.
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| Vaako | PostPosted: Fri Oct 07, 2011 11:42 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Fri Sep 23, 2011 9:14 am Posts: 36 Location: Warsaw, Poland | | You should also try to merge groups - go to 1 set, then roll back to your friends - open another set - then introduce them to previous set - very powerful tool to build social proof and isolate target (MM). After boring talk, maybe drink aim for dance space - my favourite place to start kino. You even don't have to do anything there - kino makes by own _________________ Knowledge is power, guard it well.
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