Hey guys im new to forum. Im pretty good with women but this situation has me beyond confused.

Met this girl at dog park, shes 38 im 25. We walked our dogs and talked for an hour, about all sorts of stuff. She goes we should do this again sometime, i said ok. We exchanged numbers. We started txting and in the text she invites me to her place for dinner (so far good right?) ya .. well heres where it gets weird. The txts got a little flirty then she drops the bomb.

"Just so were clear, your to young for me and im getting married soon, so if your coming over its just as friends, just so were clear"

i respond "silly girl, what did you think i wanted, friends is just fine"

then shes like "ok great , just so there is no confusion, yay friends"

i killed convo shortly after..

question is do i go? Why the heck would she invite me over for dinner if shes engaged? and why is my age even relevant.

help would be appreciated.

Cheers

Rammsteinhammer

Because she likes you as a friend and wants to invite you over. Unlike girls of our age, older women still know the term politeness. She's been polite.

And the age is a problem. Like you wanna go out with someone who could be your teen mom.

I dunno P-Style, I reckon the guys in with a chance. If I was him I'd just run game like normal and forget she ever said it. Hell I once F-closed a chick who was only 3 weeks away from getting married, some chicks are just compulsive cheaters. This whole "just friends" thing sounds like a anti-slut defence to me.

If it was me I'd be running game as normal on this dinner date and be shooting for an F-close. And if he's as good with women as he says, my money would be on an F-close.

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Two possibilities here, one, shes a flirty kind of girl and truly just wants to be friends or, two, she does feel attraction and feels somewhat guilty about it.


I don't condone being a home wrecker sooooo....I'd use her to meet other girls, cute girls have cute friends and nothing makes your job easier than another girl talking you up.



Best of luck!

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-DJ_Z

This is very true, just tread softly when screwing with someone else's life, I've been with enough engaged, married and girls in LTR's to know that it normally results in drama and headache that is sooooooooo not worth a quick lay.


Also, don't get your hopes up of her leaving her guy for you either lol

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"J, I guess yer so amazing in bed you send the girls into a transcendent state where they realize their own mortality and are shaken by the realization that their presence bears little impact on the universe, or they just realized they hate you"
-DJ_Z

wooo hoooo
she is just handling her own anti-slud-defence and it has got nothing to do with you. so dont respond to it.
you can f-close her but if you do that get ready to face lot of dramma. old women who are either married or about to get married would usually cause dramma. and its a different thing they give you costly gifts sometimes
WHY DON'T YOU GAME A 18 YEARS HOT CHICK? HMMM

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Think some of the dudes here might be over-hyping the potential fallout of this. Of all the girls I've F-closed with boyfriends, I can only think of 1 or 2 times there was any bad fallout, actually for me most of them were very easy and hassle free.

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Engagements are very different than relationships, when someone is that close to making the decision to spend the rest of their life with another they are much more likely to get the "maybe I'm making a bad decision" feeling, then guilt them opening the old suck muscle to the significant other.


most of the times I've done it, no big deal but honestly...there are so many girls out there, why take the risk. I still say, make a friend and fuck her friends.

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"J, I guess yer so amazing in bed you send the girls into a transcendent state where they realize their own mortality and are shaken by the realization that their presence bears little impact on the universe, or they just realized they hate you"
-DJ_Z

i couldnt help but laughing out loud
"make her friends and fuck her friends"
thats the spirit of a true pua

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You guys are all awesome. To be completely honest i am not that obsessed with trying to fuck her, but just more trying to understand what the hell does this type of a response mean from a woman.

I know its very AFC to back down when she says were just friends, thats why i refuse. But on the other hand i want to fuck her out of spite to say I won.

Decisions decisions, i will go and let you all know what happens.

Cheers

rammsteinahmmer

she is not a girl. She is an aunty dude. Woo ho you like aunties?
a fact
from the age of 34 to 40, female's sex drive is at its peak

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I have an obsession with older woman.. i always wanted to fuck a girl in her late 30's- to late 40's .