Right well, I ended up going with a slightly different approach, not the best but would like some feedback - negative or positive. Here is the convo so far:
Me - Hey there, you must be Beth

how you doing? x
Her - Hi Michael
I'm doing great thanks, what about yourself? X
Me - I'm really good cheers

Have you been up to much lately? I saw some of your pics on your horses, you look really good! Have you been riding long? x
Her - Not a lot to be honest. Just been meeting up with friends. Mainly waiting around for my new car. Evans Halshaw are useless! Lol
Aw thank you

I've been riding since I was little but got my first pony at 12. I was looking through some your photos too. I absolutely love you motorbike! My dad has quite a few so I love them. X
Me - Ohh what car are you getting? Bet you can't wait! Car dealers are so slow though aren't they. So do you have many horses now then? Aww thanks, I love motorbikes, although you're the first horse rider I've ever spoke to that likes us bikers haha, we are normally hated by you

! Have you ever been out on the back of your Dads bikes? x
Her - I'm getting the megane coupe. We ordered it the first week of August. I've been given several dates and still haven't got it. I've been told I'll have it tomorrow but I'm not getting my hopes up!
I've got three horses now but that's it. Three's enough to look after! Haha.
It's not the bikes that bother me when I'm hacking out it's usually the riders. But I haven't come across many ignorant bikers ... Yet! Lol
I used to always be on the back of dads bike but I haven't been on for quite a while. I'd love my own but my brother had an accident 3 years ago so I doubt I'll be allowed one! X
Me - That'll be lovely!! Is it brand new? My fingers are crossed for you that it turns up tomorrow

God yeah I can imagine 3 horses are lots to look after, I've got 2 parrots and they take enough looking after as it is let alone horses! lol. Do you ride them every day?
Yeah most bikers are pretty decent slowing down for horses, but you do get the occasional silly one. Aww no really sorry to hear about your bro, what happened to him, is he alright? You should definitely get a bike if you're allowed, you can be a biker chick then and join us on rides

lol. You been up to much tonight? x
Her (after one day of not messaging)- Sorry for the late reply, Facebook on my phone isn't telling me when I have a message.
I've never met anyone with a parrot before! I'm not 100% with birds but that sounds quite cool actually.
My brothers doing ok now. Someone pulled out in front of him and he went straight into the side of the car and flew over the roof. We're very lucky to have him here. He's got a partial metal arm so he's a bit like the terminator now! Lol
I'd love a bike of my own but that's slightly scared me off. X
Any suggestions on how I should continue from here? I feel a bit like I'm asking too many questions, but I seem to be getting good lengthy replies...?