I need some ideas for what to do when a situation like I ran into recently arises. I was doing great with an hb8 that I met on campus, we got to talking about some things, and she does not like to kiss...at all; it disgusts her. How the hell do you escalate past that? It was frustrating as hell, I get IOI's right and left from this girl, but I'm not sure how to handle this.

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You're a bit emo, aren't you?

That sounds really odd bro but I'll try and give some advice that works for me.

I read this from the 60 year challenge so I'm not gonna take the credit.

You can use touching her hands as asign of how interested she is. if she squeezes your hand when you squeeze hers that is an awesome sign.

But this all leads up to escalating to a kiss so you can try kissing her on her neck.

Oh fuck! I love this question.

First of all, that girl is weird for not liking to kiss, wtf? Could be a shittest... Like girls who say: "I don't have sex, it's gross", with a huge ass smile across their face. Ask her if she thinks sex is gross too. If she says "yes", you know she's just messing with you.

Anyway, Grab her hands and start caressing them, stroke her back, stroke her arms, this is something couples do, so you're creating that "couples" feeling.

And I'm not talking about incidental brushing, I'm talking about deliberate caressing.

I'm also not talking about what Mutsuflex said (squeezing), watch this short vid, this is what I'm talking about:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G75HUaEdgZg

While stroking/caressing, you need to talk about random stuff. Else it's TOO much if there's a silence. Doesn't matter what you talk about, rainbows, puppies, favourite movies, anything.

You can also use barriers, one I use on campus is: "It's too bad we're on campus, else I'd totally kiss you right now"
or "It's too bad there's all these classmates around, else I'd totally kiss you right now"

But seeing as your girl doesn't like kissing, it wouldn't be a barrier, she'd be disgusted by it. The point of a barrier is to say something that you BOTH want, but unfortunately there's something holding you back. So like Mutsuflex said, you could say: "It's too bad we're on campus, else I'd kiss your neck" or "... suck on your earlobe".


And essentially, what you're doing with all these techniques is building sexual tension. Making her horny.

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