I'm really confused, ive been learning a lot from this forum and from other websites/blogs on pua yet i seem to still be confused on one thing.

I see in some places that rapport is the way to a girl's heart and its gonna make them feel like you belong together bla bla, on the other hand breaking rapport is the way to get the girl, so im really confused are you suppose to break rapport with the girls that are trying to friendzone you so you have to build up some tension? and just keep building rapport with the ones that are attracted to you already?



Link me to an article that explains it more in depth, or is it like neg vs not negging ? it's what you prefer to work with?

Thank you!

Vio.

Rapport is confidence, nothing else, at least to me.
at the beginning you pretend to have rapport, thus your confident because your rapport says "ive talked to her before". I don't know why you would break rapport, it seems like a character in a play breaking character - it kinda ruins the whole feel.

you break rapport before you start the QUALIFICATION PHASE, it gives you momentum. You have to create a bit of tenstion by breaking rapport, infact thats where,"girl's investing in you starts"
and after you have qualified them you have to build rapport and deepen it. And right before entering the seduction phase, you break rapport again. Breaking rapport is there just to greace the wheels. It kind of gives your seduction a forward push.
And with a girl who has friendzoned you, you have to break rapport.
You also break rapport when a girl negs you or doesn not behave the way you want her to behave.
Rapport is just a feeling of being comfortable and having familarity. Now i guess you know why we break rapport to get out of friendzone. Feel free to ask any questions

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i've always gotten to situation with girls in wich either i was going to be a friend or start seducing her, i dont really know how to seduce a girl, i know flirting, picking numbers up but when it comes to day 2's seducing never really was my strong point i seem to soften up and kinda let her see that i like her in my behavior rather than what i say and that doesnt really work out that good most of the times, worked great 2-3 times but thats it, im stuck at the picking up stage, from there im kinda lost.



any help, links, would be appreciated.

i can't help you till you post your exact questions.
Read any good book for seduction phase(gamblers book or any course by sinn) or post your questions.
An advice for 2nd days
treat them as if you would treat your gf. Hold their hands, hug them, kiss their forehead.
Even following this single advice would greatly increase your chances

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basically what i'm saying is that i have no ideea what to do to seduce a girl, what to say, how to act, how to react, how to transition from the hey, let's hang around you seem like fun to i'm trying so hard right now not to kiss you, its that middle ground that i'm missing, the part after i get her a bit interested in me.

i sincerely have no ideea what to do in the seduction phase, im not lazy or seeking quick answers, i'll read materials i just didnt seem to know what to read in the seduction section.

PS: i run more of a daygame, i am surrounded by girls all the time, at work, at school, i have a friend( hb 8 ) wich really is a friend im not trying to hook up with her or anything,shes in my class so at least at school i have a huge advantage of preselection. talking to girls with her beside me is ridiculous , everygirl i start talking to with her beside me has always had a positive response.

so you basically need a game plan. And there are many. Just pick one, practice with that till you fully understand it and start getting laid. And on your way to mastery, whenever you get stuck, we are here to answer your question

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