i feel like i am missing something and it is so damn annoying!
before my last ltr i was very passionate about pick up, i studied it constantly and loved to sarge. however during the relationship i found passion in the actual relationship and so sort of lost touch with pick up. now that the relationship has ended i have nothing to focus on.
-i am a student
-i work 15 hours a week
-i go to the gym 4 or 5 times a week
-i play sport
but i am not passionate about these things the way i was with sarging (pre ltr) or my last relationship. now that the relationship is over i am not enjoying pick up so much. i struggle to enjoy the idea of one night stands or hook ups because i have learnt how good a relationship can be, but the relationship is over too.
hence i am passionless and very bored with life.

it feels good to vent but i have no idea how to fix this issue.... any help?

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just because my name is safety doesn't mean i like condoms

im thinking i will force myself into getting back into pick up....

uni ends in three weeks and i will have all of summer to enjoy whatever i can make out of it.

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just because my name is safety doesn't mean i like condoms

I feel your pain bro. I get this a lot when I go out. I start talking to a girl then lose interest/walk away.
If you don't mind me asking, how did your last relationship end?

its a long story... basically i broke up with her because i felt like we maybe only had another good 3 or 4 months. i figured if i ended it early we could skip the hating each other and infidelity etc by quitting while we were ahead.

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just because my name is safety doesn't mean i like condoms