So I met AG on a dateing site...(I've never held much value on these sites and rarely get on them)

I went to dinner.

He paid....All pretty normal. Right?

When we got back to the car he handed me two unopened packets of ciggerets. I handed them back as I don't smoke taylor somkes and I have my own.

On the way back to my house he tells me I'm very beautiful (not complementing myself - trying to make a point) And I'm smart . He then proceeds to tell me that He has previously dated older females who have all had kids.....Still fairly normal.

Moving on... He texted me over the weekend but I did not respond. However I had managed his contact expectations for the weekend by informing him of how busy I was and the plans I had.

He finally called last night. I told him I have been out of credit. He owns a convienence store and printed me out a credit voucher....I told him He did not have to do this I can buy my own credit......(insulting)....

He then added me on FB.....mmmmm

This is were I get a bit worried. After telling me about a car he's getting out of the workshop (If I had a dollar for every time I herd that) And then proceedes to offer me HIS CAR!!!!!!! "I might give you my Mazda...."

To this I reply " I just bought a car silly. Why would I want another one?" (I bought a car two weeks ago...)

Then he askes what are my plans for the weekend and tells me he wants to take me to get my hair done and buy me an outfit....I tell him that "I just want to take this slow" He says he's just excited to get to know me........so I got off FB ......and stay off

Again today he has texted me saying about buying me stuff. So I put it bluntly "I just want to take this slow. And I don't want to feel obligated to you from buying me stuff"(he has only paid for a dinner) He said sorry....and it wasnt his intentions.....I dont think he new what he was doing.....WAY TURNED OFF.....

This guy seems to me, to be trying to buy me....Nay......Obligate me into a relationship....

Phsyco? Creep? or what??

I think you answered your own question pretty well. He is into you, but too enthusiastic and wants to obligate you by being overly generous.


I can't tell if he's a psycho or creep from that... probably he isnt. He just isn't confident that a girl will want to spend time with him just based on his personality.

weirdo,

stay the hell away from him.

seriously.

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Perhaps just AFC?

Beware of those type you will be his property in no time.

He doesn't go out on dates much so his confident is really low. His knowledge on how to get women is strictly from watching tv or movies.

But he is really into you. I say help the guy out. Don't date him, just give him advice on how to better himself with a women.

hook him up with one of your "slightly less attractive friends" :p

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Maybe he's been making a lot of money lately or something and just wants to spend it on someone from happiness and he doesn't have anyone special to him to spend money on and he really likes you..hey, just a possibility but definitely help him out just as 0uch said.

Yeah...offering to give someone a car is crazy. The other stuff I can see as just being AFC/desperate.

So this guy is SOOOOO freaky.....in a bad way.

I haven't seen him again...Lets count ...ONCE...I've seen him once!......

He wants to give me a car.....I bought a car 3 weeks ago......

Keeps asking to take me shopping.......I wont be bought....SHAME ON YOU AG

"Come overseas with me".......Um ......No I'm not leaving the country with someone I've met once, that is clearly possessive!!!!

"Be my girl"........You've known me for 3 seconds....met me once......GET A GRIP....

BTW I have been short and direct with all my NO's!!!! He continues to attempt to purchase me like an object.......

TOTALLY FREAKED OUT.......And cutting contact.....

THE END

ahahaha what a creeper!

It might be cultural. Is he regular white guy or is he middle eastern or something?

Some of these cultures have been trading livestock and property for brides/women for literally tens of thousands of years. So much so that their who "courtship" ritual isn't dating or talking or getting to know each other... it's offering the woman's father or the woman herself something material in return for her pussy.

Perhaps but.....Times have changed.... Ok.... So he's asain of some description(on offence intended). . . . Personal trainer(So he says)....Mummy and daddy have money....Get's out of bed when he feels like it(no actual career ambitions from what I can gather)....Works for a couple of hours in the afternoon at some convience store owned by his family(has no idea of the working value of a dollar).....Lives with his brother....29yr old.....From what I can gather he is bieng as genuine as he knows how, however that doen't excuse the fact that I feel like I'm being treated as a commodity.
One of the first things he ever said is that "Wemon use me for money". What I am hearing is "I have enough money to purchase you". The interactions that followed said to me "What is your price? A car? A shopping trip? A holiday?" ...Sorry money is the wrong currency........In the end (insert downward arrow)
1) He has allowed himself to be treated this way in the past. He hasen't realised that it is passive aggressive behaviour....
2) His perception of how society really works is ascue. Therefore he has minimal social skill's.
3) He believe's that his method will work with a person like myself, who stands on her own with out the need for any financial support. Therfore he is totally unaware of who I am inside and see me only as an object that he likes the look of and wishes to purchase ......
4) He has no inner game. The only game he does have is 'the money game'

... :/ He's Indian isn't he...

I know a ton of people like that with that kinda behavior. I'm thinking it really is cultural. (not to be racist or anything). The times may have changed in the US and the western world, but anyone out of a country like that is going to be messed up in the head for a long while. (Not sure why exactly)..

On the flip side i'v met a ton of guys from countries like that, that are chill as fuck.

you met him on a dating site. he's just a desperate needy guy, who comes off creepy. be insensitive to get him out of your life.