I don't think it's talked about enough on here. But where I come from if you want to get the girls your social status is everything now I hang about with the so called "popular" group but my question is how do u get the centre of attention on you and the girls concentrating on you when your surrounded by so many alpha males also how do be seen as a leader of the group and the person that all the girls want to be with?!?!

Any advice is appreciated than you!

This is a tough one...but hopefully your group/friends are good enough to "take one for the team" every once in a while. Sometime it's easier to sarge with wings who aren't from your traditional friend group. An easier answer I suppose would be to be the most "prepared" out of your group- meaning...before going out to the club, being the most rested, having done at least a little bit of exercise over the week, holding some decent fashion sense, and being well groomed. Having just a little bit of a higher level of energy than the people you are around is one quick way of being the leader or alpha of the group and being well rested before going out would greatly help with this. Also being decisive and leading the group- nothing more annoying than hanging out with people who just sit around and....stare. Hope that helps. -Aprovato

Be different in a positive way.

BTW there's only one alpha per group. There is no such thing as a group of alphas.
But most importantly: it is not necessary to be the leader of the group to score chicks. Stating clear to a woman that you're a man who knows what he wants, will do too.

There can be more than one alpha in a group, many times there is a handful of leaders in a large enough group.

I fully agree with the second part though.

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How do I become a pointless wannabe? Keep asking these dumb questions.

OP, you are on the wrong forum to be asking questions about 'alpha'. Most guys here are wannabe pua dweebs. Go find a forum filled with LEADERS. Ask your 'alpha' questions there. On the other hand, if you want to learn cute pick up one liners, ask away!

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Nonsense. The reason being, that all this Alpha Beta shit is way overplayed and doesn't mean fuck all. Being a high value guy in a group of other high value guys will help, not hinder you. Because all of you will be talking to girls as they walk by, and girls will want to come talk to your group because they will see the large number of quality guys in the group.

The guys I hang with don't demean or "AMOG" each other. We make funny jokes at each others expense and laugh about them ourselves. We don't have witty come backs prepared and we don't all try and impress girls that enter the group. We just hang out and choose the girls that we are most into and not cross swords all gaming the same girl.

I'd recommend instilling that culture into your friendship group, or finding new friends where such a culture has already been established. It will bring you far more girls than trying to out ALPHA each other all night.

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You seem like you are in a bad mood. You normally give excellent advice twinged with some attitude. This is just unhelpful and even a little bit rude.

You are clearly a leader in some aspect, so why not give him advice on what you know of it?

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An alpha is a high value male but not all high value males are alphas. You need to understand the difference to understand that there is no such thing as a group of alphas. That just won't work as they will end up fighting with eachother.

But yes, you are correct that it really does not matter. Many girls are satisfied with a normal guy instead of a powerfull - often stubborn and extremely dominant - alpha.


And finally one alpha trait would be that a real alpha never asks how to be.

I have to agree with Florg, this pervading attitude seems to be a major problem amongst the more experienced members of the forum.

haha! that is his style leave Kasabi alone... he is misunderstood... he just like to stir it up.. Brilliant guy!

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