So I hit it off with this one girl and we met off and on for about a week, weekend goes by and we don't see each other (she was busy) and on Monday she sends me a text saying that she doesn't want to lead me on and that she isn't really interested anymore. We met up later that day talked for a while and I walk her back to her place. She agrees to come to my place on weds for dinner. I usually kiss her goodbye but this time she shys away saying ' I'm sorry, Wednesday.' I slept around with a bunch of girls for the past two years and this is the first time I'm trying to get to know a girl. Any advice?

I have my suspicions but none of them lead to the girl actually 'disliking' you. Shift up your game. If you've been holding back, then the next time, sexually escalate (actions, not words, "I like you so much") and see where it goes. She WILL see you again. Shift up your game again. Just rotate through all the games in the book. One will work. If you tell us more, I'd have more to think about . . .

Usually when im with her I'll keep asking her questions until she feels comfortable to keep talking. I'm good at keeping a convo going with anyone and it's not hard with her, but I'm not good at talking or showing through actions interest in a sober setting.

Do I hit her up and text her today or give her space and wait till tomorrow?