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PostPosted: Tue Oct 04, 2011 2:44 am 
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You have to wait to be picked (unless you know how to pick up)and god knows who's cracking on to you and what there intentions are.
Cool me can rename this site GPUA forum, the Get Picked Up Artist forum. And if you think guys are the only ones trolling bars for sex, then you're wrong, plenty of women are just out there for a lay as well.

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My Mr Nice seems to have gone cold on the texting since yesterday.
Good boy.
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As for being manipulative....I have herd this word from my own mother in the past.
Very good boy. Run for the hills! Run!!! Run!!!
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Oh and refering to myself as HB8 is because I thought it would help you guys know what kind of female the posts are coming from.....'HB8 alfa' view will be very different from 'HB3 great personality'.
Guys don't forget to post your penis size in every thread too.

OK I'll stop now.

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My Mr Nice seems to have gone cold on the texting since yesterday. He asked when we would catch up next . I said I'm open to suggestions. And his reply was so am I. I assume this was because of the cancelations. I shall begin the texting again today as I'm not working(sicky...shhhhhh...lol :wink: ) and provide an update on the situo for those who are interested or would like to help.
Haven't read the update or anything, but if you want to at least date this guy you better be the aggressor as else he will be another friend and most probably quickly.
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As for being manipulative....I have herd this word from my own mother in the past. However It is not something that I am aware I'm doing. I guess I just see what I want and everything else is just a minor problem to be solved on the way to the goal. I dont however lie cheat or steal to get there.
You don't need to lie, cheat, or steal, but I think working on being more straight forward would help tho.
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Oh and refering to myself as HB8 is because I thought it would help you guys know what kind of female the posts are coming from.....'HB8 alfa' view will be very different from 'HB3 great personality'.
Does you more harm than good actually. As for one there are guys here that think you need to treat/game/whatever HB8+ different than other girls. So your advice may very well reflect that. Secondly the HB rating system ain't universal. So you may be an 8 to one but a 6 to another. Tho in short it may be best to not bring it up. ;)


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Girls do not need skills other than: be good in bed, look good, dress decent, give the guy space, do not be a clinger or slut.


Other than that women do not need game, the few girls i met trying to play pua games, where the biggest turn off ever...I ended up playing the fuck out of them to teach them a lesson..

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Fair enough...I'll cop that....


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Fair enough...I'll cop that....


Sunny, follow my advise from the other post and when you are in a relationship follow this guidelines( what i like about my current girl):

Sex is amazing and never gets boring(she is open minded)
She is feminine
she is clean
she is in shape
she gives me space(lets me go clubbing, let me be on this forum etc..)
she cares and things bother her from other girls(but she is not jealous)
she lets me do my thing.
She does not do the baby talk and the 100 i love you babe bs status comments on Facebook bragging about the relationship
she does not call me 50 times.
she is still a challenge(but natural not fake or planned) after 5 years..
she contributes financially50/50, well 85 her/15 me lol!

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guys you cant say she doesnt belong. girls need pick up techniques just like why guys do. you could argue the same shit that a girl will only look a guy for his looks. and not all guys r superficial like u

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guys you cant say she doesnt belong. girls need pick up techniques just like why guys do. you could argue the same shit that a girl will only look a guy for his looks. and not all guys r superficial like u
Yes they are superficial. Like I said atleast 95%. Of course personality is very important, but it's not what makes most guys intially attracted to a women. Looks do, then comes personality. And I thought the arguement about women being only attracted by looks is why Pick Up exists? We don't have the same hard wiring.

If physical attraction does not exist, general attraction does not exist. If you love a girl for her personality, she is most likely a friend. I don't wanna say this relates to all men, but through my experience as a man, and having male friends and family members this is almost always true.


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guys you cant say she doesnt belong. girls need pick up techniques just like why guys do. you could argue the same shit that a girl will only look a guy for his looks. and not all guys r superficial like u
Yes they are superficial. Like I said atleast 95%. Of course personality is very important, but it's not what makes most guys intially attracted to a women. Looks do, then comes personality. And I thought the arguement about women being only attracted by looks is why Pick Up exists? We don't have the same hard wiring.

If physical attraction does not exist, general attraction does not exist. If you love a girl for her personality, she is most likely a friend. I don't wanna say this relates to all men, but through my experience as a man, and having male friends and family members this is almost always true.

Thank you! 100% correct! Guys look for in order of importance: Looks, performance(sexual), personality.

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I am 23.....dare I ask why..... :?
Just curious mostly as you seemed young from reading your op and from your replies here. Not saying that is a bad thing. As far as stepping up you game, I think you have a fair amount to work on. Playing less games in general will help tho. Also if you get board, you are going after the wrong guys then. Or are more interested in the conquest than the reward.
When I really think hard about this.(ouch) I start to think about me and what I'm attracting!.................

As for the 'conquest or reward', it's too dificult to say ....You would have to descibe the context, in which, you are refering to the two words.....

If you would be so kind :) .....


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can you answer my three questions?
1. What is the main issue here?
2. What is the current situation?
3. What is that you want it to be? What are you trying to achieve?
I never read the full threads as i didnt read this one. I try to judge the question by the title of the post and if i can't i ask the necessay information that i need before replying.

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can you answer my three questions?
1. What is the main issue here?
2. What is the current situation?
3. What is that you want it to be? What are you trying to achieve?
I never read the full threads as i didnt read this one. I try to judge the question by the title of the post and if i can't i ask the necessay information that i need before replying.
The inital subject has little beareing on the current topic.
The issue has become more complex with all the different opinions I have considered.
The current situation is a text game.
But after some serious thought, I want more, than him.
So, not to lead him on and manage his expectations will be the plan of action.

What am I am trying to be? In what context?
I am trying to achive better skills and gain more information to expand my view.


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Woa! everyone needs to relax :)

1. She's not psychotic. last minute cancel has been used for years by women AND men. It gives you higher value as youre determining whether or not they get to see you, AND if & when the next time will be. I like when men do this (though they rarely do). remember people always want whats less available ;)

2. more importantly, 'nice guy' isnt nice -.- he keeps bringing up this other woman. The first time she cancelled on him and he told you, but then asked you out (meaning she was first option. yes darling that makes you second.) So you were infact RIGHT to cancel that one. But when you finally go out, he tells you about how into her he is, then tells you not to talk about other men & THEN tries to hook in.

i dont know if hes a game player, if he is it isnt good game :\ but hes not nice..*please dispose of with care :P

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i am still not satisfied with the details you provided but anyways here is my blind shot
1. As for as the "issue became more complex" is concerned ofcourse, it would become complex with different opinions. I have actually suffered with this in the early days of my game. Then what i did to get out of it was forget all the pua and followed one, "sinn" i went through all the material that was by john sinn, and kept practising till i developed a deep understanding of how his game works and was able to get laid consistently. After that i read other material by different puas and made adjustments to get even faster results.
2. Now as for as text game is concerned you have to come across as you have stuff to do in your life. Guys quicky lose interest in a girl who is always available.
3. As for as managing his expectation is concerned, don't you ever do it. If you do that, then whats the challenge. Trust me, i am speaking from experience, if you meet up his expectations all the time, he would lose interest. You will just become boring. Always have a bit of stubborness and challenge in your attitude.
4. Dont stay the same always, keep alternating your behaviour between hot and cold.
5. And finally, in the bed, you just gotta blow his mind. Be a bit challenging there too.
6. A bit of jealousy is always good.
And finally as for as learning and expanding your view is concerned, thats just great.
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When I really think hard about this.(ouch) I start to think about me and what I'm attracting!.................
It can be scary when you do this as a lot of times it is a wake up call. And in a lot of ways this alone can solve most of your problems, as you realize what sort of guys you are attracting and how much that contributes to your overall problem(s).
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As for the 'conquest or reward', it's too dificult to say ....You would have to descibe the context, in which, you are refering to the two words.....
Its pretty straight forward really. Conquest refers to able to win or conquer, or win the battle so to speak. While reward is the end result meaning what ever the reward is for you, you where able to get it at the end.


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1. She's not psychotic. last minute cancel has been used for years by women AND men. It gives you higher value as youre determining whether or not they get to see you, AND if & when the next time will be. I like when men do this (though they rarely do). remember people always want whats less available ;)
Last minute cancellation can do this, but she canceled on the guy twice in a row. In most guy's eye's it looks like she is playing games in turn lowering their interest in her. This sort of tactic is best done once awhile as other wise it looks like your playing games.


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