Greeting Gents,

I met this girl and we happened to exchange numbers for something unrelated to dating. When I first met her, I thought she was cute so I looked her up on Facebook and it lists her as "in a relationship" including pictures with the guy. Since everything started harmlessly, I had no reason to ask about it our even admit I searched her up on Facebook.

However, we slowly started to text each other very frequently and got to know each other personally. At one point our texts got into sexting territory, and we have even met up for happy hour a few times.

Now that we are getting a lot closer and flirt more often, it's starting to feel weird knowing that she probably has a boyfriend. I can tell she is really into me, but I can also feel resistance at times. I'm assuming its because she has a boyfriend, but I also find it extremely weird she hasn't brought him up yet. I also don't feel like it's my place to bring it up at this point.

Anyway, I feel like I am now stuck in a bit of a rut in this situation. I've protected myself enough knowing from the beginning she was dating someone. However, I am enjoying talking to her and want to continue escalating, but that won't happen until she ends it with the other guy.

At this point, I'm not sure my best approach. Keep my options open with other women, but keep talking to her since i do enjoy it and maybe it would work out at some point. Simply cut my ties, and end it before I get into it further. Or play some other game that could force her into telling me or breaking up with the guy?

Any advice on picking up a girl in this situation?

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You have in your grasp. It's up to you if you believe it is ethical to have her cheat on her own boyfriend. She's into you. Guaranteed.

Keep doing what you're doing, and most importantly GAME OTHER WOMEN while you're at it.

You also pointed out the other problem, I'm not one that feels it is ethical to have her cheat on her boyfriend. Actually, I would be disappointed if she was the type that was willing to cheat on a boyfriend.

I agree keeping her in grasp, but continue to game on other woman. One concern is that I am unable to escalate further, and will get pinned in the friend mode. I was thinking a little push and pull, maybe pull back a bit at times to keep her wondering.

Best thing is to not bring it up. Just it going, if she is there she is willing.

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As for the friend zone. Remember to keep escalating gradually, dont just go for it cause you'll scare her off. Something thats great for this is a opener with some kino within the first 0 seconds of approaching

"Hey hows it going, (kino arm, very light touch back of the hand) me adn my friend where just talkin over there (kino as you point in direction) and we were wondering is it better to be wanted or need (kino)

use the gay test as in would it be okay for me to touch one of my mates like this? would by billy or bob or whichever get uncomfortable.

then you keep it building keep the conversation spontaneous and unpredictable. playful. Use multi-level communication. your verbal maybe plain but your non verbal is sexual. " hows the fam blah blah, oh really how about that pizza pretty good right? blah blh bullshit bullshit" meanwhile you could have your hand brushing her hair or hell if it been a while play with her skirt or jeans but keep the conversation mundane like its not even happening. When guys go fora sexual come on its our facial expression that usually turns that chick away but if we look indiffernet and poker faceish she' be like ok he's not coming on. play with tits "hey look at that, nice shoes right? love em" keep it going

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