Alright so how do you really know the girl you're in a relationship with is for sure in love with you? She said she is 2 months ago and now she said she doesn't remember saying that and she doesn't know what being in love is anyways..she says she loves me but doesn't know the difference between in love and loving someone. Can someone tell me how I can know she is in love with me or not and/or what's your definition of being in love or loving someone?

you will know. that is the only way to explain it. if you dont know then i think it may not be there.

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For myself, it is like this: being in love with someone means that at the time, you can't picture yourself with anyone else you'd rather be with. You look at other hot girls and have zero desire to sleep with them even if the opportunity presented itself. I've only been in love with 2 maybe 3 girls. Loving someone and being in love with them are the same thing.

Of course, girls often use the word "love" much more loosely. In that context it simply means that they trust and have some familiarity and affection for the person, but not necessarily any long term emotional dedication.

Don't try to pressure this girl into vocalizing the affirmation you want to hear. If she wants to say something sweet, she will. Don't assume that because she said it once she still means it the next month. Most important thing I've learned is to never take someones love for granted, as soon as you do, you start to lose it.

It seems to me that she's taking my love for granted but sorry, what do you mean by taking love for granted? How can I make her fall for me?

You can't.

First off don’t worry about what she says or not, concentrate only on her actions. If she treats you well, is afraid of losing you, is jealousy of other girls looking at you, and for time to time surprises you, And your sex life is good, just continue with a relationship. You guys probably are young, will have plenty of time to discover the differences

I think it all can be broken down to one question.

And that is not even one you should ask her, it's a question for one's own self.

"Does she take care of me?"


Women in love, Men in love, hell, even Animals in love will take care of their partners. They will be mindful of the other's needs and thoughts. And they will always strive to keep things light and good between the two. That being said, Love is a mutual concept. It cannot happen from one end, and if that is the case it is unhealthy for both.

My advise to you is to ask yourself that question, get your own answer and roll with that.

And if she's actually unsure of the difference between "being in love" and "loving someone", don't go all Terminator on the relationship, those are just words.Love is a feeling.

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