I have sorted the first date out after number closing about a week ago.


Me - 8.15PM - What are you doing tuesday evening? We should meet up in town x

HB - 11.50PM - That should be ok, but I'll let you know for definite tomorrow


This is early doors but would the 3.5 hour time gap and her reply be seen as hard to get? She didnt tell me she was doing anything and it seems a bit easy to read as pretty poor attempt at sounding not-easy

could be many things...

she was busy, didnt have her phone by her, isnt interested and is letting you down easy...

think about it if a girl likes a guy she isnt going to say ill get back to you tommrow she would most likly make up her mind then. but of course she could of been seeing what her friends are doing and then letting you know...however i see this as not enough attraction was built up and as of the moment she isnt interested in hanging out..

if i was giong to text her i would of said "lets hang out in x town tuesday night. 9pm fit your scedule?"

first off your in the driver seat by this message and second it beats out your

what you doing tuesday? lets meet up.......kind of sounds wimpy...

but dont get me wrong your message to me is fine. because if the girl likes you enough or has enough attraction for you then she will say yes to your comment..



did she ever text you back letting you know what is going on?

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