Hey i am indian by race.After sarging for 1 year in america(nashville,hawaii,minneapolis,now new orleans) i found the pick up artist stuff doesn't work much for inidans.But still let me make it clear its like 40% work as a man and woman.But when race,country comes into the conversation for most of the white girls its just a turn off but still there are few who likes inidan culture and i got that. To be honest we indians get stereotyped as uncool.Its kind hard for me to break the wall as an indian guy so many times .But still my number is not that bad . I closed around 10 girls and kiss closed and get numbers many.

What i mean to say that we people need to create our own script/notes to sarge girls in the street.we need to re package our way of converstaion or attitude to make it cool.I have note down couple of points which worked on most of the girls yet.Now if there is any other indians here want to share your field experience we can make this as reference point for indian guys

Not to bash but,if you have the notorious "indian accent" then it will be a lot harder for a girl to take you seriously. I think this is a matter of just working on your body language and tonality if you don't have the accent though.

Isn't the Matador(of Love) Indian? Look, I'm indian and I've never had any problems attracting white girls(my game falls short in closing). But I'm Americanized. I came to America when I was 3 yrs old, and am serving in the army. I can see people who are considered FOBs to be unattractive to American girls. I mean if you still have the accent, you need to use it to your advantage. Come one we're the people who wrote the kama sutra. I don't think it's about being Indian.

no offense; but could it have something to do with average penis size?

Generally speaking race is more important to women than it is to men. The stereotype is what’s getting to you. The more you think about it the more it’s reinforced and accessible. We have a tendency to remember what meshes with our pre-existing schema and forget what doesn’t fit (it’s just how memory works). The more negative or personally hurtful the stereotype the more easy it is to remember. The brain remembers bad times so that you’re pressured into finding a solution to avoid future problems. Think about an embarrassing moment when you were a kid you can probably remember a time vividly when you were at least three years of age. Think about how you can’t sleep at night when you had an embarrassing moment during the day before hand.

Stereotypes are not completely untrue and can be positive or negative depending on the cultural norms, but they do not represent an entire population of people there is no such thing as a homogenous society. Afro Americans for example can be stereotyped as good at sports or well hung (good stereotypes). There is a continuum between what is considered good and bad traits though, indigenous Australians are stereotyped as hostile, alcoholics and bludgers. Some groups have more negative stereotypes. I am from Australia and the indigenous people are vilified more than any other group in our society. But I have met Aboriginal people who do not fit into the stereotype; they showed another side of their character to me which I remembered, but maybe it is because I can assimilate because of the way I look and relate a little.

If I was an Anglo Australian from high society those Aboriginal people I met may have not opened up to me the way they did. There are two things at play here. One is the internal working model in the judge’s head (and we don’t really know what it is we can only guess using our own superficial attributions learned from encounters) and what the people being judged “assume” is in the judge’s head. They are both doing it to each other and until they learn about each other on a deeper level they will never really know what that person brings to the table to barter with (after all it’s all business out there in the field).

How do you get to a deeper level when people reject you because they think you’re “typical” from the get go? One way is social proof, being the token, maybe hanging around with people from other cultural groups that know you on that deep level and have put all the biases aside to be friends with you. If you’re not with them it will have to be the style of clothing and even they body language (just doing what looks like the norm, but not trying too hard to fit in with the scene- where ever it is you hang).

Thinking about what other people are thinking can affect your swagger if you let bad shit get to you. If you have confidence in your stride people will question why this guy is so complacent among the haters, incidentally those positive attributions will be reinforced when they meet you up close and personal. You probably have learned how to approach and get dissed without the whole club noticing? The biggest bond that people share in a culture is the language, so if you got the language mastered then you can change their point of view, maybe they will advocate what you believe in. By language we mean grammar, perceptions, tones, accent, humour and history. If you can’t adapt then there is a niche market out there for you- Indian chicks? (some of them are drop dead gorgeous).

I’m kind of lucky that the way I look and speak just doesn’t seem to match any encounter that people have had before meeting me. If someone asks me where I come from I usually say “I don’t usually tell people because they tend to stereotype me. If you’re a person that stereotypes then we should continue getting to know each other first, unless you can speak one of my languages, what languages do you speak?”

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