ok this is me


http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=22180474

however i only seem to attract gay men!!!

the women never give me a second look (or not even a first look). my last g/f even described me as the ultimate gay icon then dumped me over the phone after only three months by saying "it did not feel right" and that was last year. i have not had any dates since (apart from my ex g/f texting me about wanting to see me).

i have been out round town with straight guys who talk to every woman they meet and i see that they start laughing with them, but when i talk to them i get the something like "im sorry but i dont know who the hell you are...." until they see my dance moves and then they start copying what i do.

i am not interested in any one night stands, single mums or gay men. i am trained in contempory dance and have worked in many venues across europe. also a keen athlete with a reputation for being a good runner.

even my facebook updates only seem to get comments from gay men.

shall i get a t shirt that says "i am not gay!" and advertise that on my profile?

i would like some advice on what i am doing wrong???

are you joking, because that sounds rough.

If I were you I would use this to your advantage man.
Here me out though.

Picture it like this. You're busy talking to a girl
and after a while she asks if you're gay,
just say "Yeah", but...in a playful way,
she wont know the difference.
How many guys has she heard ADMIT that they are gay,
and and at the same time not be attracted to them? Not many.
Think about it, if you become
a girls "gay friend" but
you're straight, she
will invite you
out with her to girl socials and shit
and her other other girl friends will
see you as a guy who they can
relate to on a level that most
guys dont get! Finally! Someone who
likes them for who they are! Chicks
of today are bombarded by blokes with cheesy
pick up lines or just in general "Wanna fuck?"
attitudes, and now you're coming off as this
guy who loves girls, but is straight, but they
think you gay. Now, here's where the best
part comes in. One day you ask if they
wanna go shopping. Say, you need a new
hat and you value their input, and while
their at it you'll help them shop too.
Watch this. When you go shopping
with them, they probably ask you to
come and sit in the room and help
them undress or help zip up thier dresses
and shit. Why? They think you're gay.
You're acting! They will feel SO comfortable
having a guy helping them undress without
him wanting to fuck them or stick their hand
up their skirts if given the time of day. NO!

Dude, most guys I know would KILL to come
off as gay so they can sit in a girls dressing
room, to help THEM undress! The women
trust them on such a level because their
thinking "hey wait, this guy won't make a
move on me, he wont make me feel like
a slut. I need help with my dress!"

You see what I'm on about? That's
just a finite example of what you
can do with this man. I'm sorry
that you're attracting guys
but this is happening for
a reason.

_________________
'Bitches aint shit' - Chai

PLEASE READ NEXT TO CAPS NO YELLING, MY BEST WAY TO RESPOND:

ok this is me


[link]

however i only seem to attract gay men!!! I AM A DANCER AND THAT HAPPENED TO ME A LOT, BUT I WAS ATTRACTING WOMAN AS WELL, IF YOU DANCE GOOD SOMETIMES PEOPLE THINK YOU ARE GAY, BUT I WAS WEARING REALLY TIGHT TIGHT SHIRTS, I CHANGE MY STYLE, IT HAS NOT HAPPENED IN 10 YEARS, GETTING HIT BY GAY GUYS, SO IT COULD BE YOUR DRESS STYLE, OR IT COULD BE THE WAY YOU MOVE, WALK ETC, BUT NOT A FAIR CONCLUSION SINCE I DO NOT SARGE IN SOUTH BEACH FOR THE LAST 10 YEARS(GAY CITY)... IT HAPPENED WITH ONE OF MYSTERY STUDENTS, ALSO STYLE GOT VERY SUCCESSFUL AT THE GAME, CAUSE WOMEN THOUGHT HE WAS GAY ACCORDING TO HIM, SO THEY LOWER THE BITCH SHIELD, HE WAS ONE OF THE TOP PUA, SO STOP WITH THE EXCUSES AND LIMITING BELIEFS.

the women never give me a second look (or not even a first look). SO, MOST WOMEN HAVE SKILLS AND CAN LOOK AT A GUY WITHOUT THE GUY KNOWING, THIS IS IRRELEVANT my last g/f even described me as the ultimate gay icon then dumped me over the phone after only three months by saying "it did not feel right" and that was last year. i have not had any dates since (apart from my ex g/f texting me about wanting to see me). YOUR GIRLFRIEND WAS ABUSING YOU EMOTIONALLY, AND YOU STILL HAVE THE SCARES, CUT ALL TIES WITH HER INMEDIATELY, SHE MAY TRIGGER THAT PAST, AND WE WANT TO GET RID OF THE ATTRACTING GAY GUYS MYTH

i have been out round town with straight guys who talk to every woman they meet and i see that they start laughing with them, but when i talk to them i get the something like "im sorry but i dont know who the hell you are...." until they see my dance moves and then they start copying what i do. SO CHANGE FROM VERBAL GAME(SINCE OBVIOUSLY YOU SUCK AT IT, I DO TOO) TO DANCE GAME, NONE VERBAL

i am not interested in any one night stands, single mums or gay men. i am trained in contempory dance and have worked in many venues across europe. also a keen athlete with a reputation for being a good runner. NOW YOU SOUND GAY, A STRAIGHT DUDE, DOES NOT SAY I AM NOT INTERESTED IN GAY MAN, SO MAYBE YOU ARE GAY, JUST SAYING.

even my facebook updates only seem to get comments from gay men. AGAIN MAYBE YOU ARE GAY, THIS IS STRANGE, DOES NOT SOUND RIGHT, WHY WOULD YOU ACCEPT GAY GUYS FRIEND REQUEST, MAYBE YOU ARE IN THE CLOSET.

shall i get a t shirt that says "i am not gay!" and advertise that on my profile? NO THAT IS GAY

i would like some advice on what i am doing wrong??? THINKING THAT YOU ARE A GAY MAGNET AND YOU DO NOT ATTRACT WOMEN, CHANGE YOUR MINDSET, OR JUST ACCEPT YOUR BEING GAY.

_________________
Learn the proper way to maximize your results in a dancefloor/club environment, check out my blog and youtube channel:
http://www.dancefloorseduction.com

Dancefloor/Club game youtube channel:
http://www.youtube.com/dancefloorseduction

okay man, I just saw your POF, yes even I thought you were gay.

It's the hair.

Lose it.

Yes this too, go with the mohoak...

_________________
Learn the proper way to maximize your results in a dancefloor/club environment, check out my blog and youtube channel:
http://www.dancefloorseduction.com

Dancefloor/Club game youtube channel:
http://www.youtube.com/dancefloorseduction

Put a shirt on, that'll help.

just kiss guys, in front of girls and grind on them, then kiss the girls, and grind on them, they will just assume your gay and let you do it

Hmmm, not sure this would get him anything more than a gay experience...

And it sounds like having the belief that you have to trick women into liking you.


No, man, you do look kinda gay, no offense. But it may just be your shirtless torso, pretty face and perfect hair. People who look too well groomed (like metrosexual) are sometimes perceived as gay. I have a good friend with the same problem.

But this could not fully explain it... Is there something in your behavior that make people think that you are gay? Are you extrovert or introvert? Are you shy in social life?

pumpigton please tell me you are joking...

_________________
Learn the proper way to maximize your results in a dancefloor/club environment, check out my blog and youtube channel:
http://www.dancefloorseduction.com

Dancefloor/Club game youtube channel:
http://www.youtube.com/dancefloorseduction

Your shirts/hair

It screams homosexuality.

Get a haircut, don't do that flamboyant shit

Get some actual fucking clothes

you attract gay men because you look gay? how about change ur looks a little bit. smile. meet women and hang around them. ask their opinion on your problem and how to solve it.

yeah i was joking, lol, should still do it, it would be funny

Trim the eye brows, shave the hair, put on a shirt
and get a fashion sense.

_________________
'Bitches aint shit' - Chai

Consider ditching long distance running and switching to bodybuilding. I did the same shit now I'm buff as fuck. And the HAIR man, the hair needs to stop.

I think you're too sensitive as well. Mr. Fox?

_________________
Don't get on one knee for a girl that won't get on two for you.