University has just started and I'm 18 years old . Lately i've been going to alot of parties where there are dance floors and what not .

my question is :

Is it okay to grind on girls and make out with them on a dance floor even when you are pretty sure they are drunk ; ofcoarse I'm extremly drunk aswell but the next day i wake up and wonder if she regrets making out with me .
Like for example , Last night at a party me and a couple friends all started grinding on a couple girls . mine was sexy and she reached back to make out with me so i went for it .
I mean ; the first party i went to this happened and i got the girls number and texted her the next day and still text her a bit so i know it was all good . But last night it was just a random girl who i don't know.

so basically whats ok in this sitatuion and whats not ? when there is just a rowdy dance floor with a bunch of drunk university students drinking/dancing.
I mean i wouldn't dare dance with a girl who appeared blatantly drunk. I just know how girls act when they are drunk as opposed to when their sober.
I see some guys trying to finger girls on the dance floor . and even when I'm drunk as hell i will still be like man thats nasty how can you do that infront of everyone .

Question: Is it okay to grind on girls and make out with them on a dance floor even when you are pretty sure they are drunk ; ofcoarse I'm extremly drunk aswell but the next day i wake up and wonder if she regrets making out with me .

Answer: What do you mean is it okay to make out with a chick thats drunk it's a party everyone is probably drunk. What the fuck else are you going to do when your dancing with a chick lol. It's perfectly fine to make out with the girl as long as their there is proper kino escalation (see example below). That is you don't go grab ass when your first dancing with her duh. Plain and simple I think your worrying to much man. You trying to worry about other people's decision wetter they want to be sober or not those are outside your control you have to control what you can control. If your thinking she regrets making out with you she might be thinking that to. You need a more positive thought process after the fact not "if she regrets." more like "she loves the way I'm doing it." Did you seal the deal with the girl you meet at the first party?


Example: Did this at a heaven and hell frat party. What I do when i dance is let her grind me for a while then when we are holding each other's hand i'll spin her to face me at this point where facial proximity is a lot closer. I like to use "Eskimo Kisses" where your noses touch each others. this breaks that invisible barrier when you try to go in for the kiss she probably wont reject it now. Then kiss close.

Question: so basically whats ok in this sitatuion and whats not ? when there is just a rowdy dance floor with a bunch of drunk university students drinking/dancing.

Answer: Rape is not okay lol. Fingering not okay unless she's moving your hand to her snatch. It really goes her comfort level and you building enough comfort for you to move to the next stage like kissing etc. Just saying that dude your saying is fingering girls on the floor is getting your attention and everyone else's in the room as a DHV in my opinion.