This girl i know from college has just caught my eye recently i didnt really acknowledge her last year and we didnt really particularly like each other, this year however ive grown up a little and decided to start some conversation. Anyway this is the second year ive known her and weve been texting a friend of mine tells me she has caught the girl looking my way in lessons, and her texts to me are pretty inviting and are easy to respond to.

heres a transcript of the texts this girl is seriosuly confusing me with mixed messages. I implement some pua techniques but i dont want to exchange PUA for my genuinity. Hope you guys can understand where im coming from with that statement.
this is where i get confused

Her: Haha id like to see you getting rude to me !
Me:
Her: Haha na man im innocent what you on about
Me: There is nothing that you regret from the past? everyone makes mistakes
Her: Obv there is but thats no what i thought you meant
Me: Lol it wasnt but im just trying to understand you more:) btw are you taken im just curious you see
Her: Ooo Lol its going to take some time to understand me im a closed book u c
Me: Even closed books can be read by the right person
Her: Yes but you have to know a way to read it not just anyone can c
Me: Maybe the answer is inside the words or maybe the reader needs to understand the metaphor a little better
Her: Care to explain youve left me slightly baffed
Me: Proper harry potter riddles. . . i meant to say maybe the book should open for the right reader
Her: Lol Harry Potter, yes it should but the right reader has not arrived lol
Me: Lol wait and see even diamonds can be found amongst the rough have you heard that before?
Her: Na i actually havent
Me: Lol read some books ill catch you later anyway was nice to talk mate, night
Her: you too Mayne goodnyt

her intentions ?

Oh btw this is me being genuine when i text thats actually how i speak xD

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PUA techniques are no more helpful advices in your current game.

You will always follow your inner game, but now you should avoid dumm steps.

In your text convo, it is a nice, polite convo. But it is not challenging, teasing to the girl. And you didn't escalate through text. YOu didn't ask her out for a drink....

I don't mean to hi-jack this thread, but how do you tease a girl? I can't tell the difference between teasing and negging, and certainly don't know when to stop.
Does teasing make the girl laugh, cry, or evoke any sort of reactio

thanks for that i use PUA as a guideline of what to do butt ill do the steps as i would do them

ill neg n tease next time

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not to knock your game bro but you need better things then harry potter. to talk about.

Hey how are you?
Good How are you.
Thats a lovely sweater shirt.
thank you.
hey listen I been meaning to ask you out.
Would you like to go out sometime.

I can almost possibly guarantee it will be fun.

Thats sound great.

I had this convo in Prov this afternoon and we go out next week for drinks.

its not hard man.

I am older 31 judging by your convo lol no offense. I went to my high school reunion some yrs back at 28.

Do you know what I remember the most about that day. All the Hot girls from high school that told me I was cute and they had a crush and wondered why I never asked them out. I must of had a crush on half a dozen of them at the same time and never knew. I thought they were out of my league.


I don't make that mistake anymore and neither should you.

Use The Mandingo

Well, let me tell you something. I read the conversation and I could break it down to you *trying* to be indirect and yet screaming "Look at me! I like you!" and her saying "Sorry. It's a No Go." and that was that, with all the little cute sentences aside.

The basic issue here is that you're telegraphing too much interest to her and she can see that. So, in her head she already has grouped you amongst the category of guys that are interested in her, as a given and she has to make zero efforts towards them. She can choose them by her own volition.

Now, instead of that you need to employ a cat-and-string type of theory, when it comes to attraction process in relation to her. If you're too invested at one moment, become a bit cold the next. Keep her guessing. Keep her on her toes. Become unpredictable and she will start seeing you as a challenge.

And no more Harry Potter crap. If you're saying something she doesn't get, or you are being vague. You DO NOT have to justify yourself to her, or explain your words, let her over-analyze the crap out of them and lose sleep over it.

Good luck.

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Thanks guys
literally no problem with you criticising my game its calibration and all that

will try the pull string theory at college tommorow and see what happens
thanks for the help

so tommorow should i freeze her out to show DHV.
and only talk if she initiates conversation, im quite genuine in my interests anyways so ill naturally challenge her opinions if its not what i agree with ?

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