It seems to me that from all the books I have read, that probably the most important thing you can do to improve yourself and your success with women, is to get a life. I think Style (Neil Strauss) was right in his book 'Rules of the game' when he taught the importance of that.

The most successful guys I've ever meet (successful with women that is) were guys that had a life. They were social and outgoing. They got out and did things. They had lots of friends, lots of experiences, lots of stories. They were out living life. That makes them naturally attractive and interesting. They are perceived as a fun person to be around. Their stories are like DHVs.

And isn't that what a lot of PUA are teaching. -How to be fun and interesting. Isn't that the point of all the routines, to make her conversation with you stand out from all the others that were just kind of plain and ordinary. If I could just be interesting then women would find me attractive seems to be the thought.

Some people go to great links to be interesting, learning magic tricks, rune reading, tarot cards, handwritting anaylsis, telling jokes, stories, or a thousand other routines. It seems to be our job to entertain the ladies. We have to work to get into their pants.

In the 'Rules of the game' Style recommended going to a book store and looking through some magazine which shows what events are going on in your city. Then he said to make sure you always have something going on. At least every week or two. This gets you out of the house, and can be places to take women or meet women. And, now that you have a life (that is to say you're out doing stuff) you will acquire stories. And telling your stories will make you seem interesting (DHVs).

But, the problem with that is that not all of us live in big cities where they publish a magazine which tells events that are going on near by. I live in a small town and there's never anything going on.

And as for all the routines and stuff I mentioned already, I just hate trying to entertain people. I don't want to be a dancing monkey.

I don't really know what the point of this post is, I'm just kind of frustrated and venting. Writting out your thoughts can be therapuetic.

Okay, so change methoods, there are like 50 different ones, go with 60, i could never in a million years do mm, i would start with david dangelo, if it does not work try 60 or vice versa...

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I think, that you did read the book of Neil strauss carefully, but you didn't get his message well.

In his book Neil Strauss is actually saying that every guy can game every girl, every time, anywhere ( so also in bookstores). This means that you should see opportunity to game girls every where, even in small towns.

Neil Straus was a student of MM. You should read MM probably to get into the basic techniques.

There is no reason to be frustrated, because you are in control. It is all in your mindset. It is your mind that says to you to see opportunities, to see that other men are no better than you, that every girl is approachable/gameable.

Having an interesting life is hardly limited by the amount of events in your town, although I admit it is much easier in a city. The point is don't become idle. Get more hobbies, interests and activities.


You see crap on this forum all the time about pretending to be too busy to see her the next day or call her at a certain time. Pretending is one thing, but what if you genuinely were too busy to see her whenever she wanted, or call her all the time. That is the goal.