This isnt original but i havent seen anyone mention it. or seen anyone else at the bar try it.

you can love it or hate it. but it would make me feel good if some of you guys had some luck with this.

Im the kinda guy that wont buy girls drinks if they ask me or if i dont know them well enough.

i will buy my mates a round of drinks and then i MAY include my target in that round. it doesnt bother me, its only money.

if you have a girl friend, fuck buddy or new target then try this.
(it helps if you know roughly what flavours they like/dislike. but most, nearly all girls like sweet surgary cocktails Vanilla galliano and redbull is a popular one that no one seems to guess)

ask them what they would like to drink. not if they want one. i dont ask yes or no questions.

example:

Ben: its my round, what drink would you like?
HB: uhhh ummmm smirnoff ice? (insert some boring shit drink)
Ben: *yawn*sure. followed by a cocky smile.

ill drag them to the bar because after all i cant carry all the drinks by myself. i also make them listen to what i say to the bartender (who is usually a mate)

"ohhh heyyyyy. can i get something amazing and fruity that will make her smile/naked/ insert C&F line, use your imagination."

30 seconds later there is a cocktail i have never seen before, will never see again and they are always impressed at how i organised an amazing drink they would have never had. and cant ever get again. and love how spontaneous it is and how much fun that makes the night.

it works on 99% of girls (mid game routine) and most bartenders love the attention too and a bit of freedom to play with drinks and do what they want.

i am in everyones good books.


for those that try it, let me know how it goes.

All the best.
Ben

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that's actually not bad. I'm assuming you've already built rapport and the girl isn't just going to flake as soon as she gets her drink.

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'Nothing is impossible to a willing mind'

yeah i believe that once rapport is built or day 2's is a perfect time to try it. after that point where you know they probably wont flake.

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Great I'll add it to my toolbox

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'Nothing is impossible to a willing mind'

I used to take girls to the bar as well as isolates them for a few minutes, how ever I recently changed my opinion, if a girl likes me I dont need to spend money on her- and there is every chance she still flakes anyway.

My new thing is to ask her to buy me a drink first, il buy the second round. If she says no she probably isn't that interested.

yeah i have seen a few people ask girls to buy the first round and then they'll buy the second. and i dont disagree that method, infact i have used it a few times.

but i also dont mind buying a few drinks to have a good night.

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