OK, so I have been in college for a while, I know whats up with parties. But I have never been able to hook up with any chicks the same night from a college party, house party, frat party, what every you want to call it. A house party where its loud messy and drunk.

Can some one give me a step by step? All I have ever managed to do is a, Hey whats up, lets take some shots, where you going, we are going there too blah blah blah, some messy adventures, but no hooking up, no banging, no making out. I haven't been able to get a lock on a girl and go to her place or whatever.

So anyways, can anyone give me a step by step on how to get some success here?

Attitude. You're the friendly guy, so she adapts and goes for a slow escalation in case she is interested.
Try being more direct, more KINO, faster escalation, vocabulary and topics with more sex vibe. You need to be congruent right from the start - you can't open with a 30min discussion about mathematical optimiziation algorithms and then switch to caveman. This starts NOT with the opener, but with the moment you hit the venue, the way you move etc.

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Bump

phase 1: bring your own booze
phase 2:
phase 3: profit

Seriously, the trick to getting laid after a party, well there are two tricks. One is go have the balls to be so direct that outside of a college party you'd be considered a rapist. Like you just go up to a girl, tell her "we gotta start dancin, right now" and go dance until you've been grinding so long you practically busted a nut anyways and just lean in to start making out. OR you do something to stand out and draw the attention of women to you. And it can be as basic as bringing a ten dollar champagne bottle, but fuck its YOUR champagne bottle. You don't have to pass it around, you just need to hold it and drink it. I did the same, I would take a flask, fill it, and go out. But swigs of my flask are not given, they are earned. So girl brings up that booze you have, you mention what it is. You do not just give her a shot and send her on her way, that is your opener, so you now have to fuckin talk to her. Then, if she's behaving, give her a drink.

alpha as fuck!

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BOUT TIME I FOUND MY BALLS!!!

if the flask or bottle trick dont work (i dont see why it wouldnt!!!) go around saying hey, tap them on the shoulder, do you play (peer pong, flipcup, beer funnel) if she says yes tell her you need a partner n shes it haha. n if she says no thats even better cuz you can "teach her how to play, grabbing her hand throw a pong ball, or basicly kino involving hands n directions.. i know im gona go for it next time i go to a party...just make sure theres some games goin of of what your tryin to teach her!! :p

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Absolutely, if you can get a girl to play a drinking game as your partner, that gives you an easy avenue to escalate with a girl by high fiving for making a shot, hugging her for a redemption, whatever. When you are partnered with a girl for beer pong, you two immediately become bestest buddies while the games are going.

You won't believe you could start a conservation while waiting for the bathroom your fucking standing there and so other people. Make a joke "What the fuck is taking so long."

When your playing beer pong hug her a bit then after a few saw like "It costs $5 every time you touch me now get off." push her away playfully soon enough she'll be back. It's called push and pull. She comes back "Your lucky your cute." Or neg her playing skills like "I remember my first beer pong game"

KEY: Don't be that guy. If a chick asks you to hold her drink don't pass the buck to some other AFC. I made another guy hold the girl I was dancing with's drink instead of me. Don't take girls picture for them. The great Mystery said so.

I think you might be having a hard time because you might have body language that indicates your giving her full attention and easily available instead body rock out put a verbal time constraint on her to appear less needy. Also kino escalate early to avoid being put in the dreeded "let's just be friends."

Wish you the best.
Going out tonight gonna have a good time with my boys out.