This girl I met at my job. What's my next move?



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PostPosted: Sat Oct 01, 2011 5:06 am 
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Ok, so I work at a chiropratic office and this girl who looks 18 years old is really 22. We chatted a little and she smiles and twirls her hair. She is cute. One day I saw her texting on her phone or doing something anyway, so I asked her, "What you doing? Texting?" She didn't really answer, she just smiled and put her phone away. She may be more on the shy or quiet type, innocent looking, with strong chinese accent. Then I asked for her email, she said for texting you need a phone number not email, so I replied, yea i guess. She asks for my number and we exchange. So couple days later I text her to take a ride on my motorcycle. She says she had to work in the next half hour and couldn;t but thanks for the offer. Then a couple days after that I text her, "Hey what you up to?"

She didn't respond. That was last night. I see her today at work and she doesn't say hi(she doesn't ussually). Then later on she walks by and flashs a smile. And we both get done, her SPAM and my shift at the same time, so we kinda walking out together, she holds the door for me. I actually had to clock out so I told her no thanks I'm not leaving yet.

So what do you think? Keep talking to her? Be aggresive? Play it cool? Leave her alone??


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PostPosted: Sat Oct 01, 2011 8:41 am 
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If you see her often ask her why she's behaving strangely or something similar. Break the tension. If you see her rather rarely I'd let it go.


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PostPosted: Mon Oct 03, 2011 6:11 am 
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first off your looking into things that arent there.....people dont smile because they like someone yes they do, but people also smile because its the frienly thing to do.....twirly her hair big deal whered you read that? body language book?

listen man the whole she is smiling, twirly the hair thing to many guys this would indicate o she wants me and not because she wants you but because you want her to want you....anytime anyone likes someone they over analyze something and make the little gesture into a big question mark of does she like me because she just did so and so...


to keep it simple if you liked a girl and she texted you what would you do?

text her back right


so you texted a girl and she didnt text you back a to postive resonse we can conclude she doesnt like you right now


for future reference if someone likes you they will find time to be with you


you can continue to pursue from work to see what it could be but right now i dont see it being nothing

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