ok so im not exactly new to this but when I WAS.... a very low selfconfadent / depressed ,baby ect lol.. I had met this girl . She was absolutly beautifull id say she was a hb8 an weird enouph had a compleatly huge crush on me, an me being the big sissy that I was at the time killed most of the atracttion at first she was almost begging me to hang out with her an id turn her down cause I was so scared she even went to go visit me at work one time an I was shaking like a leaf I couldnt even talk to her really haha i know i know pretty pathetic but after all that she still will talk to me over facebook an when I see her out she says hi ok my question is there any tip on as to how I can rebild this attraction she had for me all i need is one date with this girl an i cant think of a way to get it. I cant just ask her to come hang out with me i did that befor an she flaked so I dont really know how to approach the situation its kinda sketchy like maybe I should move on but .. To me it would be a huge personal achievment geting with a girl that I once couldnt even look at...PS PLEASE EXCUSE SOME OF MY SPELLING LOL

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Success is the ability to go from one failure to another with no loss of enthusiasm.
Sir Winston Churchill

Over come your anxiety first before you blow it again. Then think of second chances.

She must of seen something in you she likes so hopefully you can capitalise on that.

WELL THATS JUST IT I HAVE COMPLEATLY TURNED MY LIFE AROUND 360 DEGREES I DONT BECOME SHY AROUND HER OR ANYONE AT THAT ANYMORE BUT SHE STILL HAS IT EMBEDDED IN HER MIND THAT IM STILL THAT SAME SHY PERSON SHE MET FIRST YOU KNOW HOW THEY SAY FIRST IMPRESSIONS ARE ALMOST EVERYTHING LOL IM TRYING TO TAKE BACK THAT FIRST IMPRESSION OR AT LEAST GET HER THINKING OF ME IN A DIFFRENT WAY

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Success is the ability to go from one failure to another with no loss of enthusiasm.
Sir Winston Churchill

show her (with actions) that u have changed, take her on a date, just dont call it a date, and do something really fun or exciting like paintball, show that u are incontrol now, if she flaked before it is cuz ur delivery wasnt very good or she no longer finds u attractive, make a small talk first and throw some high value lines, work it from there based on her reaction